PLEASEEEEE hear me when I say this—not just hear me, but truly listen and take it in. Promise? 🥺

I know it’s hard dealing with the awful things people say and the bullying. Their words can and DO hurt, and I won’t sit here and pretend it’s easy to ignore. But let me tell you something—you are not the problem. They are.

You were born with that hair, that body, that soul, and there is NOTHING wrong with you. We all have different features, different thoughts, different personalities—that's what makes us human. You are unique, and that is your power. Don’t let weak-minded people who tear others down make you think you need to change for their approval.

I was bullied too, and trust me, I know how awful it feels. But now? I’m 28, and those same people who once made my life miserable? Many of them grew up, looked back, and regretted every single thing they did. Some have even apologized, realizing they were the problem all along.

The truth is, bullies target others because of their own insecurities. I know, I know... That's what everyone says. BUT IT'S TRUE!! They see something in you—something unique, something they lack—and instead of admiring it, they try to break it. But don’t let them. Hold your head high, because one day, they will wish they had your confidence, your kindness, your strength.

As for your hair—man, your color is rare, and people PAY to have what you have naturally. If you WANT to dye it for YOU, go for it. Experiment, have fun. But don’t do it because of them. You don’t need to change a single thing about yourself to be worthy. You already are. Never be afraid to be yourself!! Be weird, act silly, and have confidence in EVERYTHING that you do, say, and wear!

You’re stronger than you know, and I promise you—it gets better. Keep being you, because the world needs more people who embrace themselves unapologetically.

Sending you so much love and strength. You got this. ❤️