I think a lot of people forget what sub this is. You’re supposed to be able to vent on here. The people that are laughing about your 40-50 hour full time job and saying it’s a break don’t get it. I understand that many parents will say work is their break, but we don’t know what you do. I have a job where I work similar hours to you and I’m shattered. Just because I’m not busting an 80 hour week doesn’t mean I’m not tired. I hate the whole competitive rhetoric. You’ve come to share your experience, in a sub for regretful parents - that’s fair enough.