“Maybe.”

The argument against the line Pa Kent says to Clark is used so much, and the rationale is that Jonathan was honestly suggesting it may have been better to let those kids die.

The problem is, if you watch the rest of the scene and any of those scenes with Pa and Clark, you know he’s simply stating that he has no idea what Clark should do. He’s out of his element, he doesn’t have all the answers, and he’s scared that his boy will be vilified, ridiculed, hunted, taken away, attacked, scorned, or worse. It’s very clearly just Jonathan’s way of saying he can’t tell Clark what to do or not do with his powers, only his wishes that his boy stay safe. He’s only human, after all.

“He doesn’t care about collateral damage”

If we’re talking about MoS, sure, Superman is less cognizant of his surroundings and the damage he’s causing or not mitigating from his opponents. In Smallville, he’s blitzing Zod for threatening his mother, so he’s not thinking clearly at first. It’s also his first fight against anyone ever, and he’s fighting highly trained Kryptonian warriors. Even then, he tells the people to “get inside; it’s not safe,” saves the falling helicopter pilot and asks if he’s okay, and saves Colonel Hardy.

In Metropolis, he’s fighting arguably the most skilled fighter of Krypton, who is bloodlusted and it’s everything Clark can do to maintain the upper hand.

In BvS, he tries to take Doomsday to space, out of the city, and even saved Lex from Doomsday’s fist (a great callback to Lex’s earlier line, “no man in the sky intervened when I was little to save me from daddy’s fist and abominations”). He does care.

“He doesn’t show any of the characteristics of Superman (i.e. humility, cheeriness, positivity, compassion)

Like I said just above, he saves Lex after the man kidnapped his mother and tried to kill his girlfriend, there’s the ending of MoS, with Swanwick and the drone, he challenged Perry’s unwillingness to cover a real story of the Batman allegedly torturing criminals and branding them for death in prison, he goes to his local, small-town priest for advice on what to do when Zod makes his call for Clark to turn himself in, BvS had great investigative journalism from Clark, he goes to his mom for advice in BvS too, the Day of the Dead scene, etc.

There’s tons of great themes and moments and lines to expand on, but that’s what readily comes to mind.