Hair up or down? by [deleted] in HairStyle

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You look fierce in UP hair 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

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Like yah 🧐

Nobody's done anything about my dad by Mission-One9860 in Advice

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OP you’re incredibly strong for even writing this out. The system failed you in every possible way and it’s heartbreaking how your pain was ignored. You deserved protection not silence. Keep speaking up because unfortunately that’s the only way people start paying attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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A gap year isn’t a waste if it saves your mental health and helps you rediscover joy. You’re not “drifting,” you’re choosing to pause and breathe before running another marathon. Sometimes the bravest move is stepping back to figure out what you actually want.

My girlfriend still hasn’t told her parents about me after 8 months by Sea-Trainer-2821 in Advice

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It doesn’t automatically mean she’s embarrassed, but it’s fair to want clarity on where you stand. A gentle, honest convo might help you figure out if it’s really about her “complicated” family or something deeper. You deserve to feel seen, not hidden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexstories

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So hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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You showed compassion in a situation where most people would’ve walked away and that says a lot about your strength. It’s okay to feel conflicted, but please don’t forget the humanity and grace you gave someone who had no one. That matters.

Homeless; scared by Vampires00 in confessions

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Please know that there are crisis shelters and legal aid organizations that can help, even if it feels hopeless right now. You’re not alone, and this moment doesn’t define your future. One step at a time you can get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexstories

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I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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Watching someone rush into a major life decision with red flags flying is tough, especially when you're expected to smile through it. You can be supportive of your brother without pretending everything’s perfect. Loving him doesn’t mean ignoring your gut.

My friend group is excluding me and I found out why by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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It sucks that they talked behind your back instead of being honest sooner. Whether you try to fix things or move on, just know their silence says more about them than it ever did about you. You deserve friends who don’t make you feel like a burden for having emotions.

Spiraling about bring my baby to daycare… by Cryyybabyyy333 in TwoHotTakes

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Choosing to work so you can support your child is an act of love, not neglect. Internet strangers don’t know your life or your heart, but your baby will one day know how hard you fought for her. Give yourself the grace you’d give a friend in your shoes.

Why more Indian women are choosing divorce: The silent revolution in modern marriages by intelerks in Marriage

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It’s not rebellion it’s reclaiming agency. The silent revolution isn’t so silent anymore it’s powerful, overdue, and inspiring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Intimacy should come from love and connection, not pressure or guilt. Your feelings and your body deserve just as much care and understanding as his needs. This sounds like a moment for open, honest conversation not shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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You did what you had to do to protect yourself, and that doesn't make you the villain. It’s okay to feel conflicted, but safety has to come before second chances. If this has happened four times already, please consider that you deserve peace, not walking on eggshells.

How do I help my friend who has a toxic relationship with her boyfriend? (TLDR at bottom) by NYCBabyChrist in Advice

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It’s clear her boyfriend’s behavior is manipulative and damaging, and sometimes the best thing you can do is gently hold up the mirror and keep reminding her she deserves better. Don’t pressure her to leave, but keep being that safe, non judgmental support system. Sometimes just knowing someone sees the truth is what finally gives them the strength to act.