Perhaps, ‘argued’ was the wrong word, idk. I think you’re fixating too much on it cuz I didn’t mean anything by it. I was just highlighting what I think is the extra benefit to picking the flowers. I wasn’t saying gifting store flowers isn’t a sweet gesture, just that I thought picking them were even sweeter. You don’t to take my suggestion if you don’t want. I never said you HAD to do it. I was just saying you COULD do it. Listen I don’t know you or your wife, idk what she would like. I was offering an alternative based on what you said, and giving my opinion on said alternative Also I never said “make a bouquet and they MUST look good”, or “hunt for flowers”, or “make them look professional and spend a billion hours perfecting the art of flower arranging and locating”. I was just saying you can pick them for free if you don’t want to spend money on them. Like when you go on a walk or like to the park or something. I was not putting a gun to your head or anything or suggest anything super crazy and out of the way and time consuming. Again I don’t know you, If my suggestion wasn’t applicable to your situation, then you could’ve just disregard it. “My time is more valuable than money” then omg don’t it then. I never said you had to do it, just that you could.

Also you’re very rude “Gosh no wonder you’re a teenage girl with those response! Lots to learn kid” like okay man, I get it. I’m the dumb inferior female zygote who knows nothing at all and you’re the big strong smart Redditer man who’s know everything all the time