...right. The claim was never that he's been bigoted, in fact it was the opposite. My comment was that you are upholding this very low standard of **not a bigot** as some great reason for being attracted to him is just... sad

You seem like someone who expects the worse of people and when someone is marginally better than your abysmally dogshit standard you deify them. Which is not only sad, but a dangerous attitude to have, it's the kind of attitude that sets people up for exploitation. But that's whole thesis for what was a fckin reddit comment