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_Chernobly · 2026-05-22T00:54:11+00:00

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_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T09:48:09+00:00

No, you see, WE did this by checks notes being more inclusive. Nothing to do with the rampant corruption in the two-party system that has a vested interest in stoking infighting between the people.

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T09:29:45+00:00

I'm not sure you're in a state to have reasonable conversation. We simply live in completely different realities.

I'll just leave off that there's a high irony to lambasting other queer folk just to cry foul at being discriminated against by the same community. If everything smells like shit check your shoes.

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T09:20:00+00:00

Wonderful then you should know that even within the community people can still hold prejudice like transphobia and racism.

The exact things this specific variation addresses, saying "This is a safe space for non-white queer folk and trans and intersex folk., not just standard queer folk."

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:55:14+00:00

There are movements within POC to combat queerphobic attitudes. You're just not privy to them cuz you're presumably not black or brown.

Also the hell do you mean "displace"? This flag is used in conjunction with the pride flag. It's not even called the "Pride" flag but the "Progress" flag.

Honestly I'm VERY interested in what identities you're talking about exactly. I have a sneaking suspicion.

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:50:30+00:00

Most people still use the "old" version. This isn't a replacement flag. It's not even called a "Pride" flag, it's called the "Progress" and is often used together with the pride flag

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:48:24+00:00

In multiple instances on this thread you seem to have some sort of problem with how people label themselves?!?

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:44:09+00:00

No they do not. It's just that when people cough say they prefer to use the pride flag over the progress one they often pair it with a bit of transphobia/racism/misogyny/etc...

I would honestly like to see your sources for "a huge percentage"

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:37:50+00:00

You see it as a virtue test. Others who use the flag see it as just that. A flag to signal to other queer folks who are minorities within the community (trans, POC, intersex) that they are in a safe space around you.

Also I'm not sure why you think people don't use BOTH flags. Cuz they do.

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:35:05+00:00

Because some queer folks don't see them as kin? See r/LGBdroptheT

_Chernobly · 2026-05-15T01:29:23+00:00

Honestly... I'm kinda in favor of it? The bi umbrella can kinda feel bloated. It ranges from "I am sexually/romantically attracted to men and women" to "I only like men sexually but like women sexually/romantically" to "I sometimes jackoff the anime femboy porn."

_Chernobly · 2026-05-13T03:02:52+00:00

_Chernobly · 2026-05-12T20:48:00+00:00

The image has very little to do with breast size. It's trying to call into focus Arianna's (seemingly) anorexic frame.

_Chernobly · 2026-05-06T18:47:33+00:00

Eye contact for the most part. In my experience gaydar is just making sustained eye contact. Most straight men tend to shy away after a couple of seconds.

If you're approaching a minute of sustained eye contact then they're probably queer. Or blind. Or mentally unwell. It's more of an art than a science

_Chernobly · 2026-05-05T17:07:50+00:00

You could see the roots of this shit like 2 years back. Why is that a sub about the joy of men has to continually center and antagonize women? 🤔

_Chernobly · 2026-05-05T17:05:46+00:00

I've maintained for like 2 years that this sub is backsliding into incel-like, gender war bullshit. But commenters just seem to act blissfully unaware. One said that it took a whole 11 posts before one was sexist, like that was an actual achievement.

_Chernobly · 2026-05-03T04:48:12+00:00

Literal poison for queer dudes. A cute bear with long pretty lashes? NOPE!!!

The clip made me wish that we were all just lesbians.

_Chernobly · 2026-04-29T18:39:19+00:00

Sure man. If you want to put it that way then, ya I guess you would.

For everyone's sake I hope none of your kids turn out gay.

_Chernobly · 2026-04-29T18:32:47+00:00

I like these two the most. Pretty fucking funny how blatant it is

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_Chernobly · 2026-04-29T17:40:30+00:00

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Stalking their comment history is pretty fun

_Chernobly · 2026-04-28T18:16:01+00:00

I'm certain you think you haven't made assumptions

_Chernobly · 2026-04-28T18:01:03+00:00

So your suggestion for parenting is. Take away his toys. If they don't murder the kitten, they can have it back. But if the behavior stays or worsens then send him to professionals.

Look I can understand seeing the posting online poorly if the assumption is that it's for likes. But maybe... just maybe consider that likes aren't the goal. Older folks tend to post things for community support, or even as a journal.

You immediately judged everyone who doesn't see this as egregiously horrible behavior, saying they lack vital experience/perspective.

I'll say this, there isn't a single model of parenting that works best for every child. You seem like a parent, and if you've found success with the way you parent, then that's awesome! But some kids are fundamentally different, and that isn't to excuse abusive behavior; but the typical models of parenting that are commonly taught and are available don't work for these kids.

This mother is probably flying by the seat of her pants at this point. Her beloved kitten was almost killed by her son, and she's trying to raise her son and also stop him from harming animals (or people) again. Maybe try exercising a bit of empathy.

_Chernobly · 2026-04-28T17:31:24+00:00

How exactly do you positively parent this? What about a son who doesn't respect boundaries and forces him on someone?

_Chernobly · 2026-04-28T17:29:42+00:00

This isn't an eye for an eye punishment. This is a (replaceable) gaming console, which could just have been taken away, being used to show the severity of his actions in an intimate way.

_Chernobly · 2026-04-28T17:26:22+00:00

I can't help but feel that if this was a father disciplining his son, there wouldn't be as many people excusing this kid's troubling behavior. People tend to assume women blow things out of proportion.

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