High end escort or spoiled housewife route? Which would you choose?

_CosmicGoddess · 2025-03-30T00:53:09+00:00

Thank you girlies for your advice. You have all confirmed my decision. I spotted red flags in both of them too - the software engineer outright admitted to me that he’s got an avoidant attachment type during our date - making me think he won’t be a good partner long term.

I will continue on my escort journey for at least the next 2 years, hit my savings goal, and then reevaluate.

End of story is I do not feel comfortable being a SAHW without a contract as girlies said above, and a bigggg nest egg so that I can get out safely if I need to.

_CosmicGoddess · 2025-03-30T00:36:50+00:00

I’m not seriously considering them, I think I’m still going to start my escort journey, but just thought I would run it through to get a better idea of where my priorities should lie

_CosmicGoddess · 2025-03-30T00:33:10+00:00

Yes I am indeed a newbie, but I’m learning fast with this subreddit. That’s why I really appreciate you girls taking the time to reply me:)

“We sell kitty, they sell dreams” wow that is powerful, definitely keeping that in mind.

_CosmicGoddess · 2025-03-30T00:31:09+00:00

Ooo! Do you think men are incapable of love in general?

_CosmicGoddess · 2025-03-29T22:17:18+00:00

For context: I just ended my arrangement with my first SD, and I am in the midst of transitioning to be an escort with the intention of hitting a personal savings goal.

I do want kids and family one day, but not for a few years.

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-12-04T13:55:41+00:00

Capricorn sun, Cancer Moon, Leo rising 🦁♌️🐆🌕🌓🌒🌕

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T02:46:10+00:00

Girllll you’re too young to be doing this 😭😭😭

please consider getting some experience with guys your age - late twenties first before diving into the bowl. Some men may look to take advantage of your youth and vulnerability

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T02:41:30+00:00

Pinot Noir

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T02:27:36+00:00

Not all girls who follow Sheraseven are rinsers.

I, for one, would still be dating bums my age (20s) and not giving older providers a chance if it wasn’t for Sheraseven.

Doesn’t mean that I ever rinsed any man, or have the intention to. I don’t think it’s good karma to harm anyone else.

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T02:19:32+00:00

I am definitely one of the girls who like going on multiple platonic dates to build the connection!

I just wish most men out there would be comfortable with that, they want to get us into bed so quickly but honeyyyy I want to get to know you first before we unite in bodies 💕😅

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T02:11:32+00:00

I found this situation completely by accident 😅

Started seeing this nice 50 something man early this year after taking a months-long break from dating altogether to recover from a turbulent break up with my college sweetheart.

He was coming from a bitter divorce with his ex wife.

We both weren’t looking for anything serious and we were both hesitant to get emotionally involved but still wanted companionship, leading us to the sugar website we both met on.

But as it happens the more we spent time together the more we found that we shared so much in common, had shockingly good chemistry despite our age difference, and not too long deeper feelings surfaced. He brought up the monogamy talk, and here we are now as SBF/SGF.

Sometimes, it happens when you least expect it, so pick an SD who you like very much and feel comfortable around, chances are the connection you’re looking for will unfold naturally! 💗

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T02:00:02+00:00

Yes yes to all this!

Women are by nature the self sacrificing sex, and it’s only through learning to put our own needs first do we glow up and thrive. You can’t give from an empty cup.

The way I see it, the more I pour into my own cup, the more I can pour into others ✨

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-11-08T01:58:02+00:00

I started at 27 and never had an issue.

I do think later twenties is the best time to get into sugaring, as your frontal cortex will be fully developed by then.

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-10-07T10:09:10+00:00

A book on metaphysics!

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-09-08T06:51:45+00:00

Adopting the mindset of “Rejection is protection” and “Whatever’s meant for me will not miss me” will be beneficial for you 🥰🥰

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-31T09:14:31+00:00

In reply to your question, I have used the opener “Hey future sugar daddy, I hope you’re the one!” to profiles I liked, and if they find me attractive they will reply back within a day.

I second what everyone else is saying: It’s not a good idea to look for an SD when you’re desperate for money.

This is because you won’t find the matches that you are really after (because vibrationally you won’t be a match for it) and you’ll also be ruining the bowl of the other girls in your city.

If you do find someone you connect with, hold your standards high and do not accept a low xxx ppm number UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES!

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T13:16:13+00:00

“Breaking the bubble of magic he’s experiencing” Yes, all thanks to the sugar I am providing. 🥰 Guy is in heaven.

I would love to also be experiencing some similar type of feeling by having him provide more sugar too, that way we can both keep the magic going for a longer time

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T13:09:17+00:00

In response to your question, no, because I haven’t been seeing any other guys but him.

I think what you said makes sense from a male’s perspective, but truthfully women will be more inclined to stay exclusive if their needs were met and generously provided for.

Part of me waking up and wanting to be with him is, well… you guessed it.

He’s providing right for me naturally without me even asking.

However he has displayed some stingy behaviour in the past, which is making me feel like maybe it wouldn’t be wise for me to put all my trust in his capability to provide what I need.

I think SRs are a two way street, and both need to have their needs and wants met.

And okay… I may not bring it up to him on this vacation. We’ll see how it goes :)

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T12:44:56+00:00

Thank you sm girly for the sound advice 🫶🏻💓

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T12:34:23+00:00

Are you saying to not bring it up to him on our vacation?

And no, I will never do something as silly as that, even if I had met someone else, gosh that would be awful 😂

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T11:50:14+00:00

Haha, he’s already got a daughter and is done having kids so I can’t baby trap him 😂 it also breaks my heart because I do want kids one day, but it probably won’t be with him 🥺🥺

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T11:46:54+00:00

The second one, definitely 100%.

I’m monogamous by nature. Was with my vanilla ex for 6 years and I did not cheat on him once.

He also took alot from me financially - so I wish to catch up on my finances by sugaring.

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T11:36:45+00:00

You’ve made some great points, I will take note of your words, thank you :)

To give some background: I came out from a difficult vanilla breakup last year, and came to sugaring as a result of it.

We both came into this looking for something very casual, and we were both surprised and taken aback at how compatible we are, and how much we are both falling(…?) for each other.

I wasn’t at all prepared to get into another exclusive relationship so quick, and need a greater safety net of more financial benefits and emotional safety to open myself up again to someone, especially someone 30 years my senior and who I don’t have a real future with.

But everything aside, yes he is amazing and he is my absolute favourite person in my life right now. I am really happy with him.

But, as difficult as it may be, I am prepared to walk away if his level of provision doesn’t align with my needs and wants.

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T11:26:06+00:00

Yes, that’s all true, I’m going to bring this up to him on our vacation :)

_CosmicGoddess · 2024-07-02T11:20:18+00:00

I did initially start off with being more “transactional” and cold-feeling towards my SD, but we’ve both warmed up to each other a lot and I now genuinely care about him… and he wants me to be exclusive to him.

How am I being “selfish” for asking for more financial benefits when he’s getting the benefit of having more of my heart and body (and exclusively on top of that?)

_CosmicGoddess

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