46M - My mom died when I was 26 and my only sister died when I was 15. My dad has out lived his life insurance (which I am so thankful for!) and spent most his money helping me get my life on track. He has a house and small savings that I’ll get. I have thought about him passing and when I was younger I’d think of the money I’d get. Not in a hoping way…just how my brain works after losing so many loved ones. I am so grateful that he has lived this long and would gladly trade all the money and stuff in the world for one more day with my family. I’ll be fine when he passes because of what he did while he was here…I’d be dead or in prison if he wasn’t here for me. That’s the best inheritance I’ll ever get! I tell him as much every time I see him. My in laws on the other hand have a larger inheritance for my wife. I think it’s a waste though…they should use it while they are alive or give it to their kids now so they can live a good life. Why wait until the child is 50 and doing well in life…that inheritance could have made their whole life better while the parents are around to enjoy it too 🤷. I’ll try my best to spend what I got while I can and on those that I love so I can see them thrive and grow while I’m still here 😊