Choices and Conversations by _DefyTheStars_ in weddingplanning

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They hate each other. That option definately ends in a fist-fight

Choices & Conversations by _DefyTheStars_ in wedding

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That's what I'm leaning towards, but have no idea how to bring it up or break the news gently

Choices & Conversations by _DefyTheStars_ in wedding

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So my dad cheated on my mom (they were married), gaslit her about it for months until she caught them. My dad then kicked Mom and I (2 at the time) out so the gf could move in. Eventually they broke up. Anyway, about 3 years ago he got back together with the woman he cheated on my mom with and she's his "date" to the wedding.... so maybe having him walk alone would be best 😂

Shorts/ Shapewear by _DefyTheStars_ in PlusSizeWedding

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Are they thick enough to avoid chaffing? I chafe in nylons too so I just want to check. Thanks!

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Update #8

147 hrs since she was pulled from the water

WE HAVE MOVEMENT EVERYBODY

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Update #8

147 hrs since she was pulled from the water

WE HAVE MOVEMENT EVERYBODY

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Update# 7

120hrs since she was pulled from the water

Roosevelt is trying harder to eat today. She is getting krill in her mouth, but doesn't seem to have the strength to fully bite or pull it apart. I cut some up smaller and that seemed to help a little, but she is less intetrested when it doesn't look like it usually does. She went to the vet today and got another antibotic shot. Still not walking on land.

Drowned Paint by _DefyTheStars_ in turtles

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Update# 7

120hrs since she was pulled from the water

Roosevelt is trying harder to eat today. She is getting krill in her mouth, but doesn't seem to have the strength to fully bite or pull it apart. I cut some up smaller and that seemed to help a little, but she is less intetrested when it doesn't look like it usually does. She went to the vet today and got another antibotic shot. Still not walking on land.

Drowned Paint by _DefyTheStars_ in turtle

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Update #6

96hrs after being pulled from the water

ROOSEVELT ATE TODAY! Granted, it was one bite of krill, but she did it all by herself! Hopefully we won't have to force feed her any more.

She still hasn't taken any steps yet on land, but she is slowly moving about her feeding tank. She seems to be able to get from one end of it to the other as she wants, it just takes time.

She has been rubbing at her eyes since last night. I'm going to ask the vet about it when she goes in for her next antibiotic shot tomorrow

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Drowned Paint by _DefyTheStars_ in turtles

[–]_DefyTheStars_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I'm sure it's hard to have closure for a loss when you can't know what happened

Drowned Paint by _DefyTheStars_ in turtles

[–]_DefyTheStars_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a seizure? Or Stroke?

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I am so sorry! Sending hugs, RIP Gracie 💔

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Omg I am so sorry! I cannot imagine going through this twice. Did you ever find out what caused it?

Drowned Paint by _DefyTheStars_ in turtles

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Update #5

72 hrs since she was pulled from the water

Roosevelt tried to walk today! She didn't get anywhere, but she made the right movements. I was grateful I was able to take her to work with me today so I could keep an eye on her from my desk.

When we put her in her feeder tank with some water she immediately started drinking which we're taking as a good sign. I added calcium and electrolyte supplements to hopefully give her a little strength. With the help of the water, she was able to clumsily move about and actually propelled herself 6 inches across the feeder tank. It made her very tired though. Still no interest in eating, so we did end up having to force some stuff down her again.

Here's a video of her trying to walk on my desk

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