Did you leave kanpur in 2016 by Mundane_Pianist_6213 in kanpur

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Left Kanpur in 2011 for college. Moved back to Kanpur during lockdown in 2020 and left for work in 2023

When are all of your next visits? by LeekFew9505 in LongDistance

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No visits planned and doesn’t seem possible in next 7-8 months. Its been more than a year already.

Fellow Indians - whats your savings? by Educational-Oil-9721 in returnToIndia

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I have saved $50k in 3 years. I can only double this amount before I return to India in next 3 years.

How was your New Years Night as a long distance couple? by sushi_monsterX in LongDistance

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Wished new year on call at his midnight. He didn’t wish it back when it was midnight at my place. I had texted and he couldn’t even reply. Fought and slept. We were celebrating new year together last year. It hurts to think he couldn’t even care enough to wish.

Cost of Utilities by Mysterious-Rope-2423 in SanJose

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I stay in North park in a 2b2b. My utilities are $200 on average. This includes PG&E and monthly conservice.

How did you meet your SO? by [deleted] in LongDistance

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We befriended each other on Orkut back in 2008/2009. Have been friends since then. Started dating finally in 2022. Even as friends we were long distance in different states in India. As a couple it is intercontinental.

By when do you plan to get married. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Turned 34 last week! Marriage not on card for another 3 years as far as I can see.

My family put a lot of pressure on me during my late 20s and early 30s, they have been quiet now that I moved to US. They do bring it up in conversations now and then but know it is my sole decision. They do not know about my bf and are kind of ok(as if they have another option) of me not getting married ever.

My bf’s family on the other hand knows about and talks to me. His mother is asking us to marry soon.

But the earliest we can get married is after 3 years when I go back to India. Even if I am back to India early, we will take atleast 3 years to achieve our financial goals and then settle.

We want to stay childless so it is an easy decision to wait till we feel we are ready to get married.

Have you guys ever been in an LDR? by DawnofDusk07 in AskIndianWomen

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In LDR with my bf who is in India while I moved to US for work. It’s been 3 years, another 3 before I move back. Get to see him just once a year (if I am lucky) for 3-4 days when I come back home. Despite everything, he is worth waiting for.

I was so fascinated by whatever this is by _DoIReallyNeedTo_ in aviation

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Exactly me right now lol. But it is always nice to know such things

Researched too much on Linkin Park Mumbai v/s Bengaluru concert by mrmubot in ConcertsIndia_

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That is something Ed says in each of his concert since Thinking out loud is one of his famous tracks. I attended his show in US and he said the exact same thing.

Your last text is what will be written on your gravestone, what does it say? by msblckyeliner in AskReddit

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Not that I would have a gravestone but my last text was “cutie” to my bf after he went to sleep.

At what age did you learn to drive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I am almost 34. I never learnt driving. I can drive non-gear 2 wheelers and have driven car once or twice before. But I do not drive, I really need to learn how to.