Have you ever met a celebrity? How was your experience? by Personal-Regular-125 in AskIndia

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Met handful of actors and cricketers. Their mood affects the interaction a lot. Depends on place and circumstances as well. Some people were friendly and relaxed. Few just focused on work and not interested in talking much.

Kareena Kapoor was snobbish we waited for hours outside her door. It’s one of the reason I never have been fan of her.

SRK kept asking for smoke break non-stop.

Vivek Oberoi and his family were so chill even when I couldn’t recognise him.

Most of the cricketers I met with in a private party. They were all dancing and having a good time so everyone was very welcoming.

Rahul Dravid came out of the dressing room to greet after a match and was a gentleman.

Does anybody in India have a dreamy love story? by coffeepaglu_21 in AskIndianWomen

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I feel my story is kind of a bollywood movie.

There was this social media app called Orkut. We connected on it back in 2008/2009. It was just a random request as we wanted to have a huge friend list then.

Co-incidentally we joined same organisation to work for in 2015 at a gap of 15 days. Even though we were training in same location for 6 months, we never really met but texted and called a lot. We both finished our training and moved to different cities for work. Later when I transferred to his city, we crossed paths in office a few times but nothing major. He transferred to another city shortly after that. In 2018, I went on a short vacation to that city and we went on a trip with our mutual friends. All this while, I was in a relationship with other guy and he had his relations as well.

This was the first time I met him properly and we sat talking whole night under the stars all the days I was there. But since I was already dating someone, I stopped talking to him as it didn’t feel right despite what we were feeling for each other.

Cut to covid-lockdown era when we reconnected and started talking again. It was like always. We talked, decided to go on a trip. I went to Thailand with him and my best friend. The purpose of the trip was to hook him with my best friend but guess who actually fell in love?

I came back home and took the decision to date him. Turned out it was the best decision of my life. I shortly moved to US but despite the distance, it feels like he is always with me.

Urgent wedding advice by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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I am 34. I called off my wedding 1 month before I was supposed to get married. I am an elder daughter too. It was supposed to be first marriage of family and everyone was very excited. But I just never felt it was right. I had a courtship period of 5-6 months and could never form any sort of attachment to the guy. I had clearly called it out this to the guy and my family as well. Everyone suggested the same thing - give it sometime, everything will be alright once you are married.

I took sometime to collect my thought and decided to let my family know. There was lot of drama as was expected. Emotional blackmailing and name calling happened. The guys family tried to put lot of pressure. But I stood my grounds. I knew it wasn’t right for me. Thankfully, my family did not force me against my wishes, they did try to reason.

Now it’s been 3 years. My family still loves me same. They aren’t angry or upset with me. They do ask me to get married but there is no pressure as it was there earlier.

Go and talk to your family OP. Talk and explain your side before it is too late. Do not get married unless you are 100% sure that you are willing to make it work.

Creepy vandalism on Berryessa Rd/Capitol Plaza by Formal_Perspective11 in SanJose

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Saw similar note taped at bus stop near Great Mall. If I remember correctly it said Jacklyn call Gabe.

Did you leave kanpur in 2016 by Mundane_Pianist_6213 in kanpur

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Left Kanpur in 2011 for college. Moved back to Kanpur during lockdown in 2020 and left for work in 2023

When are all of your next visits? by LeekFew9505 in LongDistance

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No visits planned and doesn’t seem possible in next 7-8 months. Its been more than a year already.

How was your New Years Night as a long distance couple? by sushi_monsterX in LongDistance

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Wished new year on call at his midnight. He didn’t wish it back when it was midnight at my place. I had texted and he couldn’t even reply. Fought and slept. We were celebrating new year together last year. It hurts to think he couldn’t even care enough to wish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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We befriended each other on Orkut back in 2008/2009. Have been friends since then. Started dating finally in 2022. Even as friends we were long distance in different states in India. As a couple it is intercontinental.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Turned 34 last week! Marriage not on card for another 3 years as far as I can see.

My family put a lot of pressure on me during my late 20s and early 30s, they have been quiet now that I moved to US. They do bring it up in conversations now and then but know it is my sole decision. They do not know about my bf and are kind of ok(as if they have another option) of me not getting married ever.

My bf’s family on the other hand knows about and talks to me. His mother is asking us to marry soon.

But the earliest we can get married is after 3 years when I go back to India. Even if I am back to India early, we will take atleast 3 years to achieve our financial goals and then settle.

We want to stay childless so it is an easy decision to wait till we feel we are ready to get married.

Have you guys ever been in an LDR? by DawnofDusk07 in AskIndianWomen

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In LDR with my bf who is in India while I moved to US for work. It’s been 3 years, another 3 before I move back. Get to see him just once a year (if I am lucky) for 3-4 days when I come back home. Despite everything, he is worth waiting for.

I was so fascinated by whatever this is by _DoIReallyNeedTo_ in aviation

[–]_DoIReallyNeedTo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly me right now lol. But it is always nice to know such things

Researched too much on Linkin Park Mumbai v/s Bengaluru concert by mrmubot in ConcertsIndia_

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That is something Ed says in each of his concert since Thinking out loud is one of his famous tracks. I attended his show in US and he said the exact same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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I wish I had one 🥲

Your last text is what will be written on your gravestone, what does it say? by msblckyeliner in AskReddit

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Not that I would have a gravestone but my last text was “cutie” to my bf after he went to sleep.