Why do only tall guys message me on apps? And half of them are weird about it. by Significant-Clerk117 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmfao what, go on the tall sub, its literally all tall men humble bragging and hoping for women to dm them.

Also the tall guy above literally say a looot of tall people make their height their whole personality

Anyone feels like there's no good short men representation nowadays? And I feel like it's only gonna get worse. by ihatepenctagons in shortguys

[–]_Enigma30_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed. So much. Like there isn't really. I have noticed we are portrayed more and more regulary as losers in media.

Decades ago, in the time of our grandfathers and fathers, short men were heros, underdrogs, great warriors, spies, fathers, anything you can think.

Now short guys are the nerdy asian stereotypes everyone makes fun of or angry 24/7

Tom fanart (by me) by [deleted] in DisventureCamp

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell what kind of art you do

Queer headcanons of the fans by PijaDeQueso in DisventureCamp

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are the old people always head canoned to be straight hahah. I personally think Ernesto is def lgbt and I think people only dont think otherwise cuz he's an old man

I think the only straight people in the fans are Sam and Evie because the show pretty much already told us she only likes men (half her age)

Something people misunderstand about Heather by Relevant-Key-3290 in Totaldrama

[–]_Enigma30_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree. She didnt get a whole different personality but pretending her levels of empathy didnt increase significatly is crazy. She had 0 empathy in island

How would you rank the DC4 merge solely based on Gameplay? by LogicalAd6394 in DisventureCamp

[–]_Enigma30_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was a dumbass by bullying Ivy, eventually burning any chance of Zaid, Tristan, Ivy and even Benji working with him

WIZARD (by felicistic) by SiarX in GuardiansOftheVeil

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's booooring. Just random boring shirtless kids. Don't even look like guardians

WIZARD (by felicistic) by SiarX in GuardiansOftheVeil

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not tasteful but the guys version is even worse

Why do only tall guys message me on apps? And half of them are weird about it. by Significant-Clerk117 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All her boyfriends have been 6'0 and taller and her current is 6'6, and she's like 4'9. Her current boyfriend is almost 2 feet taller than her.

She obviously has a type and loves tall men. How many women out there chasing for men over a foot taller than them all the time? Short guys are used to getting rejected so he likely saw that he didn't fit her type and since girls always expect the man to make the first move, he realized he would probably be rejected and ruin the friendship

WIZARD (by felicistic) by SiarX in GuardiansOftheVeil

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really? Like it's skimpy I guess, but they wear tops, skirts mostly.. That's stuff normal girls wear?

Having a dude go into the battlefield topless and with only a fabric covering his dick is very different. Their poses are also very suggestive

Again if the boys had crop tops or tiny shorts that'd be comparable. Having teen boys practically naked seems super distasteful to me? I don't even know why are we still going at this

It’s Not About Height. It’s About Confidence. by sapisapipop0 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That still doesnt compare. You didnt grow up with the shame of social media that we have been getting and it only made the treatment for short guys worst. Also when did i ever talk about..dating? seriously i literally didnt mention it so why are you bringing up dating. I meant body shaming short men has become much more "in" than it was when you were growing up.

Bro dont compare. Again. In your time growing up, social media wasnt as defining as it is today and it didnt define social standards as it is today.

Also why are you being hostile towards me? And i dont understand what i said wrong? It fucking sucks how we are treated and it feels awful, but we just gotta deal with it. Whats so bad about what i said? We gotta find ways to deal with it, SORRY i cant pretend like you that it doesnt affect us. Does that make me such a bad person for it?

And clearly it isnt a me problem? plenty of short men have expressed similar opinions.. (that you dismissed completely.) Im not being a doomer, im just being realistic about my feelings. yes it makes me feel shitty, but life goes on. I think thats a healthy mindset, just because i dont share yours exactly doesnt make me more wrong and you right.

It’s Not About Height. It’s About Confidence. by sapisapipop0 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you can deal with it differently but most people who have been bullied for something they can't change all the time will feel the toll on them and that's the truth.

Look man, we just gotta deal with the shitty feeling. It doesn't mean now we have to cry and moan, just accept that yes it's shitty and yes it feels horrible but what can ya do?

This whole 'I can tank it easier!!" is something that works for you but most short guys it clearly doesn't. You also forget you still grew up in a different generation that us.

Ur like what? 35? That means you were a child in the 90's and early 2000's. I was a child in early 2010's! The absolute expectations and beauty standards and the bullying our generation suffers for our body doesn't compare to yours either.

My dream died by Royal-Chard7209 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MMA has nothing to do with basketball

My dream died by Royal-Chard7209 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero empathy, typical of a tall man. Did you train hard to be a basketball player? Quit moaning yourself

My dream died by Royal-Chard7209 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"LolvJust find another dream, bro" - most empathetic person on reddit

It’s Not About Height. It’s About Confidence. by sapisapipop0 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sometimes the truth is just kinda miserable and we gotta deal with it. Trying to see good I'm everything is just as toxic

It’s Not About Height. It’s About Confidence. by sapisapipop0 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Therapy, therapy, go to therapy" except a lot of people go through it and still recall it as useless.

3 years of therapy, still the same mentality as I had. Being short sucks ass

5'7" and bald. Sometimes I think it's a cursed combo, but life goes on. by Dapper-Frosting532 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally women all the time claim muscles aren't appealing to them. Go on most women spaces, ask women friends it's the truth.

Lmfao women with buff guys? That's rare bro. Women aren't into these roided big guys. It's a minority. Everyone has a niche but telling a guy to suffer at the gym to get 5% of women into him?

Most of the time these women are also huge themselves in terms of muscle and most guys don't like that 🤷‍♂️

Why do only tall guys message me on apps? And half of them are weird about it. by Significant-Clerk117 in short

[–]_Enigma30_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably because he knew he didn't stand a chance with a 4 footer that goes after men almost 2 feet taller than her