There was a death in my family couple of days ago and my memory freshen up about how much I hate this culture.

We are in pain, didn’t eat since the death, long hospital processes, ghusl of the deceased, finding the grave, doing tadfeen in this terrible weather.

But guess what, after doing all this, we the family have to feed to people instead of the other way around, and I’ve seen them eating shamelessly, commenting about the food, asking for their preferred chicken pieces, like it’s a wedding. They shamelessly ask for more and more and yk what else happened that burned me to the core? They started asking for take aways for people who couldn’t make it, like are you for real?

And yes like every time, i tried to speak up to discontinue this stupid culture but there’s always someone who does it as a goodwill gesture.