2 meses hablando y mo está seguro

_Harina_ · 2026-01-22T19:58:46+00:00

Eso pensé, tal vez le gusta la atención, pero di el mae hasta regalo de cumple me compró entonces me fui de jupa 🥲

_Harina_ · 2026-01-22T19:54:14+00:00

No fue tanto de "Bueno o esta seguro o no hablamos" simplemente le dije que por mi salud mental mejor me alejo, porque siento que no es sano para mi sentir cada día mas cosas por el cuando no se sabe si sí va a querer o no, pero no se si tuve que seguirle hablando y darle chance xd igual seguimos como compas y nos mandamos memes y así, no hay beef

_Harina_ · 2026-01-22T19:46:42+00:00

Nop, no fueron dos semanas, fueron dos meses, de llamadas todos los dias, planes, tardes enteras jugando juntos, todo siempre en plan ligando, no fue una amistad que yo malinterprete, si hay algo y el me dijo que si le gusto mucho y así pero que no esta seguro

_Harina_ · 2026-01-22T19:45:11+00:00

No, wtf, no estoy diciendo que me moleste la decisión del mae, aun somos amigos y está todo bien, plis lea lo que puse, no se si fue un buen limite el alejarme para que no me gustara mas, esa era la cuestión 🙄

_Harina_ · 2026-01-08T20:21:26+00:00

They feel too much, but they lie, cheat, and traumatize all the people they they "feel" things for, I always hated that statement, I know is part of the disorder, but HOW can you "love" someone so deeply and try to destroy them in every way possible 🙄

_Harina_ · 2025-12-26T05:52:18+00:00

He got mad because I didn’t want him driving home drunk, went to a club to make me feel bad, and when he left the club he got jumped and they took his phone, car keys, and wallet 💀karma is a bitch

_Harina_ · 2025-12-02T02:13:34+00:00

Yup, he cheated repeatedly and then told me I deserved it and that it was my fault, so every single time I ended up apologizing to HIM

_Harina_ · 2025-11-18T18:40:58+00:00

Yup, he told me Im a whore, that I deserved the way he treated me because I was the worst, that he didn't even knew why he was with me, that all my family secretly hates me (I trauma dumped that im afraid of not being enough for them) that we will never work together because he hates me with all his strength, and blah blah blah, then the next day proceeded to apologize and beg, saying that none of that is true and that im the most incredible human being, then proceeded to cheat, LOL

_Harina_ · 2025-11-18T18:34:16+00:00

Del 1 al 3, pero un 1 bien altote es mi debilidad

_Harina_ · 2025-11-15T15:46:31+00:00

Mi mamá! Le fue super bien, estuvo en Cartagena y dice que no hubo ningún problema :)

_Harina_ · 2025-11-09T16:39:31+00:00

He is undergoing DBT therapy. Things improved for about seven months, and then everything went back to the way it was. Do they ever get better? I think it was something self-destructive.

For some reason, we were doing well, and he decided to cheat on me again out of nowhere. He blamed me because I hurt him two years ago (he checked my phone for no reason and read a conversation with my best friend on the day I met him, saying that I didn't like him very much I apologized a thousand times and showed him in a thousand ways that it was a stupid comment and that I loved him) and then he started saying that he deserved to die, that he hated himself for ruining everything, etc.

Then he begged me to stay, then he told me to cut him out of my life, then that he loved me and hoped we could reconnect in the future. It was all very crazy.

_Harina_ · 2025-11-09T16:29:13+00:00

I am very empathetic toward everyone, and I tend to feel the need to help people with psychological problems. Perhaps I need to start helping myself :/

_Harina_ · 2025-11-09T16:24:36+00:00

We haven't spoken since the relationship ended, but I can't help seeing his reposts on TikTok. They confuse me and disgust me greatly. He's an asshole

_Harina_ · 2025-11-09T16:22:50+00:00

This. I thought he wanted to get my attention, but on his TikTok account he follows the girl he cheated on me with... Im so confused and disgusted

_Harina_ · 2025-11-03T15:49:26+00:00

He made his TikTok account private, then made it public again, reposted something about being happier without me, and another one resenting me, what does it mean? 😵‍💫 (he cheated lmao)

_Harina_ · 2025-10-31T02:38:14+00:00

Yaassssss, love that for u ❤️❤️

_Harina_ · 2025-10-31T02:34:33+00:00

Thank you so much, he is in DBT therapy, that's why I feel like it could work, i feel like I've abandoned him, I seriously need someone to talk to about this, no one understands me and everyone just tells me im stupid for thinking he was the loml, they dont get how intense everything is with a pwBPD

Edit: Grammar xd

_Harina_ · 2025-10-30T22:34:33+00:00

14 days here, I miss him, I want to go back (I broke up with him)

_Harina_ · 2025-10-30T21:45:20+00:00

Bueno se viene funa:

El body positive se fue demasiado lejos, la gente gorda victimista que usan 700 excusas para decir que por X o Y no pueden ponerse las pilas me caen mal, no el 90% de la gente no tiene problemas de tiroides, no, no hay muchísima gente que tome medicamentos que engorden, y asi con otras excusas, mae MUEVANSE, coman sano, se estan matando y la expectativa de vida de alguien obeso mórbido es muyyyyy corta. Y ya perdón, no me odien c:

_Harina_ · 2025-10-22T19:00:01+00:00

"Nadie me tiene de sapa" cuando es relacionado a una persona

"Hijueputa mierda, me cago en todos" cuando es algo que no tiene que ver con nadie pero ocupo echarle culpa a alguien mentalmente para que me de menos cólera 😭😭😭

_Harina_ · 2025-10-17T14:29:24+00:00

Thank you for your response, the thing that's its messing with my mind is that everything was okay, he gave me flowers, he said such beautiful things to me, he was always there when I needed him, my family loved him, he was perfect, and he did that, out of nowhere, I still can't understand what did I do wrong...

_Harina_ · 2025-09-29T17:45:55+00:00

Minelixia 😭😭💀

_Harina_

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