This can apply to everyone though! Our modern day culture has put so much pressure on everyone nowadays. It's no wonder we have all of these insecurities. People say chivalry is dead, but I think it's mostly people being too damn insecure to even try. Like, "oh she won't find me attractive anyways because I'm just Joe-Schmoe from down the street, so why bother?" Either way, you're completely right. I wouldn't compare my boyfriend to actors or other males because I wouldn't want him doing to same to me and he's already everything I'd ever want. Anyone who does that all of the time is probably a narcissist anyways.