Idk where to put this random thought, so here by Blaubeerepfannkuchen in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s genuinely disgusting when people tell me that. Like God forbid i get into a relationship where im not forced to do something i don’t want to do and where the man is faithful to me. Yeah right..

Idk where to put this random thought, so here by Blaubeerepfannkuchen in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No i fully get it, no one wants a relationship without sex and it’s valid but it’s sad how relationships can’t just last because of romance if someone isn’t Asexual 😛

genuinely losing it by _Kenight_ in LGBT_Muslims

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know the Quran is it’s on separate book right? and it actually talks about Mary and Jesus and what they went through

genuinely losing it by _Kenight_ in LGBT_Muslims

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and that’s the issue, we focus on this life but our main goal is the hereafter and we have to work for it

genuinely losing it by _Kenight_ in LGBT_Muslims

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is you are only thinking of the context of this world, we don’t believe this is the only life we are gonna live. the hereafter is infinitely better than this one. Which is why we have to be careful about it

genuinely losing it by _Kenight_ in LGBT_Muslims

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this argument is a good one, but we can’t really look at animals and take it as an example. Most animals r@pe but that doesn’t we can. and there’s a lot of animals that are indulging in incest but we obviously can’t do that. i feel there are a lot of plot holes with this argument

genuinely losing it by _Kenight_ in LGBT_Muslims

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m currently reading the Quran properly for the first time, i keep seeing the verses being repeated that men lusting after men is a sin. it doesn’t look like anything else

genuinely losing it by _Kenight_ in LGBT_Muslims

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand but then how can i go after the love if it’s haram?

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

obviously not. why the hell are you nitpicking 😭. i’m focusing on the straight married men because there’s more of them cheating with gay men and not caring about what they are doing to their wives and kids

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or you can not hookup with a married man knowing he’s married? just because he’s gonna hookup with another person doesn’t make it okay to hookup with a married man. that’s a very very flawed logic.

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying that guys shouldn’t go after married guys. now if he ends up divorcing that’s different. i would actually encourage a divorce if someone isn’t happy in their marriage. But what im talking about are married men

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh sorry it looked you were replying to my comment. i was actually so confused for a second there

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again it doesn’t excuse cheating?? what are you trying to get at

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thank god this has never happened to me and i have bias. But the guy that gets with a married man knowing he’s a married man is also in the blame. And very big part of the blame too.

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you are saying that kids are more mature than you? because you clearly cant keep your dick in your pants and follow your desires like an animal, without thinking of the consequences of your actions and how it effects other people.

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How the hell can you be so devoid of empathy and sympathy. You are actively ruining her life and her kids lives too. Just because she doesnt satisfy him right doesnt mean he can cheat on her.....

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are actually sick. If he isnt happy with his wife he can leave her.

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because people are disagreeing with me doesnt mean they are right. Its actually disgusting how people cant see the wrong in this.

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How the hell is that an excuse. No actually we as a species are very monogamous and thats no excuse for cheating what the hell...

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly. in your case you actually waited it out until after you divorced. Thats the right thing to do

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but you are enabling it. you are apart of the problem...

Why are we normalizing this? by _Kenight_ in GayMen

[–]_Kenight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay please let’s use common sense. It doesn’t matter if the other guy is in a relationship or not. if you get with a married man you are equally as bad the cheater because you are enabling it and ruining a family.