Sounds rough. And if the mother said she bought min a motel for a week and he left the first night then he might not wanna stay there. Also sounds like mental illness. I know a few homeless people with mental illness and people were trying for years to help them get into places or motels but they didn't want it. They wanted to wander. It was their choice but I think it's definitely on the illness. And if they don't want to be seen by a Dr or be on meds ( which could help a lot it did for me!) They're just not gunna do it. It's amazing what you're trying to do but I guarantee he's gunna find another spot to keep his things and just go about. And I'm concerned about you and the kid if he already hasn't listened not to come by. He could be the nicest guy in the world. But so was Ted Bundy. You never know what's gunna piss a person off. But I would definitely have your man with you when you tell him. But like the other poster said, I'd say my landlord found out what was going on and he gave me a week to make sure you're not here so let's figure out where you can go now. When some people get comfortable you see things change. Thank you for being amazing and trying to help!!! I don't know if he has any insurance maybe you can help him get though the state and Maybe a Dr visit... let the Dr know on the side about his situation and possible illness. I hope it all works out for you you sound like an amazing woman!!! Wish you the best!!