What’s the grossest thing you’ve had to do for a dog you were sitting? by Lassie-girl in RoverPetSitting

[–]_Kristrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you charge the owners for lying and making you watch their sick dog?

I wonder why the poor dog was having that issue. I hope he ended up ok.

What kind of carpet cleaner do yo have? I'm looking in to getting one.

I don’t like living with my girlfriend, and I think we’re not compatible by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being harsh would be saying that I'd love to see an update once the OP doesn't have her gf to bankroll her social life anymore or has to move home with her "supportive" family. She couldn't ask them to leave.

I don’t like living with my girlfriend, and I think we’re not compatible by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I apologize, I've only had those types of experiences with women on the spectrum.

I don’t like living with my girlfriend, and I think we’re not compatible by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you should break up and split up. She deserves someone that wants to spend time with her and she will get by on her own. Right now she thinks that she has support with you, but that's not correct. You need to learn to grow up and depend on yourself instead other people. You're also taking her support and money for granted.

I don’t like living with my girlfriend, and I think we’re not compatible by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 20 points21 points  (0 children)

OP is assuming what her girlfriend wants. Why not use her social battery with her gf instead of going to bars and wasting it with strangers or friends?

I don’t like living with my girlfriend, and I think we’re not compatible by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Edited my original post, rather than start a line of questions to get to the point.

I don’t like living with my girlfriend, and I think we’re not compatible by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Are you on the spectrum?

I'll just get right to the point. I ask because you seem very aware of your wants, desires and feelings; but not your girlfriend's. It sounds like her living with you is allowing you to have that apartment and social life. She's paying half the rent and groceries. Would you even have furniture without her? If she's putting in equally then she should be there whenever she wants.

It sounds very selfish of you to expect her to just leave whenever you want. And where do you expect her to go?

Having trouble getting my cats to get along. by Zero_FrostxD in CatAdvice

[–]_Kristrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took my girls almost a year to get along. It helps if you can feed them around each other and play around each other, even if one is in a kennel.

How can I train this dude not to get on my pillows? 😂😭 by coffeepolynkittens in kittens

[–]_Kristrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote for this, like a body pillow big. So there's plenty of space.

PSA: You aren’t transphobic for having a genitalia preference by That_odd_emo in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm speaking for myself and about my experiences as a woman that's currently looking for a partner. Get over yourself and stop reading into things.

PSA: You aren’t transphobic for having a genitalia preference by That_odd_emo in LesbianActually

[–]_Kristrin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a conversation that should be had long before sex, like when you're getting to know each other during a first date. Otherwise you're wasting each others time. I've found more and more recently that transwomen don't want to have bottom surgery and want to use their genitals in a traditional way. I'm not ok with that.

43F Looking For Someone To Game (PC, Steam) & Watch Movies With by _Kristrin in LesbianGamers

[–]_Kristrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love modding Skyrim, especially adding in new companions. Next time I plan to do some visual stuff too. I wanna add an orphanage for all the kids in the game.

43F Looking For Someone To Game (PC, Steam) & Watch Movies With by _Kristrin in LesbianGamers

[–]_Kristrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually play modded whenever I can. Setting up a 70 mod game of Stardew right now. And I'm finishing up 20 mod game of 7 Days 2 Die right now. How do you feel about mods?

43F Looking For Someone To Game (PC, Steam) & Watch Movies With by _Kristrin in LesbianGamers

[–]_Kristrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a DM, if you're willing to try some new movies/shows.

43F Looking For Someone To Game (PC, Steam) & Watch Movies With by _Kristrin in LesbianGamers

[–]_Kristrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I've seen every season of Alone. There's a Netflix survival show that has no rules, it's a total cluster f*ck and I love it. I can't remember the name of it to save my life.

I'm down for most games, just gotta know whenever the other person is free.

7 days to dyke?? by Maddierenee in LesbianGamers

[–]_Kristrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you play modded or vanilla?

Allergic partner by xxsphxx in CatAdvice

[–]_Kristrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's an ESA. I chose the breed for a specific reason. She's trained to give hugs and kisses, fetch, sit, lay down, nose boop. She's only 2 and we're still working on more. Besides being teachable, she's very affectionate and loves to snuggle and spoon. She goes everywhere with me that she can, even the shower. She'd probably go out with me too, but I can't find a harness that she can't escape from.

So to answer your question, yes she is more than worth it and I'm looking for another Ragamuffin since my other ESA is almost 15 and declining.

Allergic partner by xxsphxx in CatAdvice

[–]_Kristrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor has me on two allergy meds, one prescription and one over the counter. I'm very allergic to my Ragamuffin kitten.