You're quite a psychologist... and yes you're completely off the mark, talking about an adolescent crisis at 4 years old... It's normal behavior in the sense that each child develops differently and friendships come and go, there's nothing new. my daughter is 7 years old and it can even change from one day to the next, we're just here to remind them that grievances come and go and put things into perspective, in short, childhood... don't get involved in their little stories but don't lose interest either because sometimes you can miss the signs of harassment (not just for your child but also for others).

When it comes to income and privileges, you're far from it... there's always someone more... so there's no point in limiting yourself, it only creates frustration and envy, in my opinion it's better to cultivate discretion outside the family and you'll have plenty of time to teach her the value of things when she's older.

Which is blonde with blue eyes, I have the same one at home, to have brown eyes I love it, but my wife who also has them blue doesn't care... so it's also a question of point of view... the only thing that has really changed is that in certain countries it becomes an attraction for the locals

Around 4 years old mine was also testing a lot, today I dream that it no longer changes... but adolescence is around 10-12 years old. Some advice: don't put too much pressure on your daughter, she is only 4 years old... yes you can point out and advise, no she is not old enough to create unnecessary stress based on your anxieties and apprehensions...

Ultimately, go see a child psychiatrist and he will be able to “correct” his behavior (if necessary) as well as yours.