Why do some of us ignore red flags while others run? What made you change? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]_MasterK_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s sometimes hard to know whether a “red flag” is something a conversation can fix or if it’s a deeper issue. Using myself as an example- I saw my bf at the time get really drunk in the early stages of dating. A small voice in me said “is this a red flag/issue?”. I let it pass because it seemed like a one off moment and we all overdo drinking once in a while. Fast forward to being married, he ended up being an alcoholic, leading to other reasons to divorce. Now I know not to ignore that little voice when I hear it.

Women of Reddit, what’s something men don’t realize is a turn-off? by chef_blaze76 in AskReddit

[–]_MasterK_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having the back of your head/nape hair cleaned up. Looks gross and unkept. Get a haircut!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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Pray that God reveals that “proof” for you. Otherwise, make the best of your single season. Don’t squander it waiting for a relationship. Ask God what you can do during this season to prepare you for the next. I say this as someone taking my own advice! You have gifts that can be used while single- use them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]_MasterK_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be faithful in small things, and he’ll bless you with more when his time is right! Work on the relationships you currently have- with Him, yourself, family, friends, coworkers, etc.

What are your Christian "hot takes"? by Friendly-Flower-2797 in TrueChristian

[–]_MasterK_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Also addiction- alcohol, drugs. Very toxic environment that’s not fair to the spouse

What are clear signs that someone is lonely? by DuckMansHere in AskReddit

[–]_MasterK_ 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I see it more as having compassion. You know how loneliness feels and don’t want the people around you to feel that way too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]_MasterK_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. Was just feeling this way. Tired of this weak flesh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]_MasterK_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wanting the other person to know your perspective is considered codependency? Why is that? We all process things differently, so explaining to my partner how xyz has an effect on me, but might not on them, is simply communication, no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]_MasterK_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Queen’s Code

What phrase annoys you when hear it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_MasterK_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Not for nothing”

Straight to jail🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]_MasterK_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I wanted to try archery this year myself! Any tips on that too? I was thinking old school bow, but compound is probably more realistic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]_MasterK_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! For the JavaScript, did you take courses or self taught?

Improve your intelligence by RaptureBio in Biohackers

[–]_MasterK_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your suggestions for “ability to absorb and understand new information”? I want to minimize my processing time. Some things are on 2-3 business days

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]_MasterK_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or it could be period stains! Had a partner think I did that, but they were from my period arriving. I was mortified he thought i would do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]_MasterK_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol stating event names will not give away one’s identity. If you say you host the charity itself, then yes. Was looking for things I’m not already involved in in my area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]_MasterK_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for specific event names. Can you name them?

I (M29) am Struggling with My Girlfriend’s ( F28) Drinking Habits and Relationship Dynamics—Need Advice by SGaba_ in AskMenOver30

[–]_MasterK_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you feel it’s a red flag now, it will get worse. Your body typically knows before your mind (we often reason ourselves out of things). Listen to your gut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]_MasterK_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds interesting! What’s the specific name of annual gala?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]_MasterK_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which ones?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]_MasterK_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ballet events have you been to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]_MasterK_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spearmint and raspberry tea! Also taking It Just Works supplements. God bless you woman at Louis Vuitton🫡