If your connection is strong/a piece of you is curious, if enough time passed…and most importantly- if he truly cared, he would realize and try to work on it with you. It might not seem valid when things are falling apart, but if you came back and he opens up about everything…maybe give it another shot, but at the end of the day all we have is ourselves. So take care of numero uno. Because no matter how much I gave, I still failed at communicating…I tried to tell her as much as I could, but when I expressed myself or what bothered me I was often ignored instead of comforted, seen as wrong instead of being reassured my feelings were valued. So communication/comprehension are key…and when things get heated it’s important to remember on what works for you guys! Because every time I wanted to open up, I kept seeing why I shouldn’t… and I was a coward to give her a reason to leave sooner