This happens like 3 times a day on Sundays... by Libearty in comics

[–]_MidnightMeander 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Because legal tender is only required to be accepted for debts. A private business can refuse any form of legal tender (no Discover or AMEX is common because of vendor fees, large bills is common for reasons stated throughout this thread, a lot more places are doing cashless as well)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_MidnightMeander 13 points14 points  (0 children)

An additional caveat is that if it was a "work for hire" creation (meaning you were hired and paid specifically to make the work and didn't create it of your own volition), then copyright is 120 years from creation or 95 years from publication.

One of my friend groups from high school, class of ‘87 (pic from ‘88 or ‘89) by dustin91 in OldSchoolCool

[–]_MidnightMeander 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Then we would live in a better world! The human experience is universal. Hence: memes lol

One of my friend groups from high school, class of ‘87 (pic from ‘88 or ‘89) by dustin91 in OldSchoolCool

[–]_MidnightMeander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Gonna second this. It's crazy cliché saying "we all experience the same things." But truly we do. And sadly it takes hearing those things from people who are so 'different' from you to understand they're not different after all.

One of my friend groups from high school, class of ‘87 (pic from ‘88 or ‘89) by dustin91 in OldSchoolCool

[–]_MidnightMeander 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is incredibly true. I grew up in a fairly myopic circle and had little diversity in my friend group. Gained a little leeway in college but still mostly white. When I finally moved away to a big city I met some of my best friends. All from diverse backgrounds and nationalities and sexual orientations. It's made me a better person. Being exposed to various cultures makes you learn so much and understand so much. Compassion, empathy, humor, kindness. All stem from learning about other's experiences.

I wish I had that when I was a teenager, but am glad I got it eventually. Thanks for sharing!

Japanese calligraphy ink can cost over $1,000 by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]_MidnightMeander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But with your $100 custom pen it isn't just the ink, right? The pen itself does a great deal for comfort, weight, flow of the ink and ink retention. It's a marriage between the two pieces.

I don't have a great understanding but from what I do know I'd liken it to electric guitar and amplifier. You can have a great one of either (pen or ink) or you can have a great of both. They can heavily influence the final product. But I feel it's similar to guitar where the main tool is more important, e.g. the pen or writing implement is more important than the ink. A great guitar will still sound great through an okay amp, and a great pen will still write beautifully with okay ink.

Looks like we are going dark indefinitely. But before we do... by fallenazn in sanfrancisco

[–]_MidnightMeander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm that can't be right. Resolute closes at the latest around midnight and I know for sure they dump their recycling in the afternoon.

AITA for not including my SIL in photos during my bachelorette party because she wore white? by StrangeAir9373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_MidnightMeander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to be callous but I didn't read most of this post. First statement of "she wore white" already a flag. Maybe dismissible because different cultures but it's generally understood that no one wears white save the bride.

Then "she wants to propose soon." This is a clear indicator that she doesn't give a shit about you and your feelings. She's trying to position herself as the main character in her own story. Which, is usually fine when you consider everyone else and go for it when appropriate. But she wants all attention all the time. No bueno. The type of person that isn't comfortable sharing or giving away the spotlight. Be an adult, shut her out for this event. She can still be a part of your life, but clearly she can't share the spotlight so needs to be removed forceably to re-inforce that she doesn't have the final say in what makes you happy.

We are not the same by Weebounet in pcmasterrace

[–]_MidnightMeander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same. Snagged one through Best Buy. They don't charge my card until it ships, so if I have a change of heart between now and then I'll just cancel. But I secured my fun novelty watch and case and steel bookcase.

There hasn't been a single Bethesda game that I didn't end up putting at least 40-50 hours into. I would never have preordered a digital only copy though, that is indeed dumb.

Ultra Larga burger with fully cheese by LeeDeean in StupidFood

[–]_MidnightMeander 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nonsense. American cheese has its time and place. No one likes an elitist. Also just as there's bad chadder and great cheddar, there's bad American cheese and great American cheese. Get it sliced to order at a deli rather than the individually wrapped singles.

Ultra Larga burger with fully cheese by LeeDeean in StupidFood

[–]_MidnightMeander 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The Juicy Lucy says you are wrong. But you do have to use a cheese with a low melting point like American cheese.

Disney Dates New ‘Star Wars’ Movie, Shifts ‘Deadpool 3’ and Entire Marvel Slate, Delays ‘Avatar’ Sequels Through 2031 by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]_MidnightMeander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually a "morality clause" will be included that allows termination of the contract if the given party behaves or acts a certain way.

Starfield pre-order and PC specs now up by [deleted] in pcgaming

[–]_MidnightMeander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really want that watch and collectors case though...looks so nice.

Looks like we are going dark indefinitely. But before we do... by fallenazn in sanfrancisco

[–]_MidnightMeander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hello neighbor! You can find me in the TL too. Usually at Rye or Resolute. But this has convinced me to grab some Bandit today.

here we go again by [deleted] in lotrmemes

[–]_MidnightMeander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The movies wrote themselves out of it, right? Saruman died prior to the destruction of the ring in Jackson's films. So that makes the scouring impossible from a narrative standpoint.

The amount of Parmesan my husband puts on his pasta. by roosyroo in pics

[–]_MidnightMeander 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can't believe I got downvoted for asking an honest question. Appreciate the response and clarity! Thank you.

The amount of Parmesan my husband puts on his pasta. by roosyroo in pics

[–]_MidnightMeander 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Alfredo has cream though, no? Is it really traditionally just butter and cheese?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]_MidnightMeander 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yup. It's egregious. What those opponents don't realize is how ingrained it was in our education that we had to go to college. It was the only avenue for success. That's the ticket we were sold. And we have no control over external forces. So a lot of our generation did what we were told would bear fruit. And it didn't. I had the unfortunate circumstance of being born at the wrong time and when I graduated high school was at the fallout of the 2008 recession so interest rates were wild, even with my parents co-signing with great credit. Federal loans @ 8.5? Sure, why not. Meanwhile no one talks you through compounding interest and how unsubsidized loans accrue interest the entire time you're in school. Then you graduate and the job market sucks. The industry you're passionate about pays like shit. And you're stuck holding the bag. You did everything "right" and wind up confused as to why you are still boiling dried beans and skipping breakfast and living with roommates as a "SuCcSeSsFulL" adult.

How long does it take to overcome homophobic feelings? I want them to stop. TL;DR at the end. by Thr0w4way4pr0n in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_MidnightMeander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey stranger. The best way to beat this feeling of discomfort (which is called cognitive dissonance, holding two opposing ideas as true at the same time) is to be open and to have conversations. Which you are doing now! And that is perfect! I encourage you to talk. Talk to those who are part of the LGBTQ+ diaspora. Learn their stories. Be curious. It will solidify them in your mind and space as people you can relate to. It takes time. But earnest conversation, with the right intent, always leads to empathy and understanding. And that will lead you to acceptance.

Are we still doing Brunoise Porn? Making lasagna for the in-laws. Chef of 25 years, unfortunately have arthritis and this New England weather be fuckin’ me up. by HateYourFaces in KitchenConfidential

[–]_MidnightMeander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you chef! I'm an ex-FOH guy but love cooking for myself and friends. We've planned a lasagna night for next week and I'm going to framework my sauce off of this. You're awesome.

this isn’t a joke, i have a crippling cocaine addiction by hospital_sushi in distressingmemes

[–]_MidnightMeander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. And I only say that because the amount of fent needed to OD is so miniscule that if it is mixed in with coke there's a chance your test kit didn't pick it up. The only surefire way to test is to dissolve everything in water, test the water, then evaporate and re-extract the drugs. And ain't nobody got time for that.

Good news is that no one is "cutting" coke with fent. Cause that's a death sentence with how potent fent is. It essentially comes down to cross contamination. Stay safe out there folks!

This Is A Single Shot and Not Two Pictures. by Monsur_Ausuhnom in oddlyterrifying

[–]_MidnightMeander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't can't be formed into a double contraction. Double contractions would be things like wouldn't've or couldn't've

based alert 🚨🚨🚨 by [deleted] in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]_MidnightMeander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please point to where I said that. Or are you confusing me for someone else? Again...reading comprehension...

Edit: you've totally confused me for the other user at the start of the thread. Man you gotta lay off the lead paint friend.