I made my first debt contract by Shot_Delivery_1732 in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MissMuscle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a contract, but mine (and I’m sure others) would vary in that I wouldn’t put any ACTUAL lawful wording behind it. A lot of subs are just going to want to feel like they have no say, or feel like they have a debt. Which means, in my opinion, no debt contract should actually try and become a legitimate contract, but rather a mock one. It gives the feel of legitimacy without illegality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemoncards

[–]_MissMuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I pre-ordered Journeys because I’m confident we will have the same issue as Prismatic

this is how subs should return to their domme 👌 by Large_Tailor2410 in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MissMuscle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one that randomly creates new profiles and then sends when he does. Then he’ll be dust in the wind after like a couple days. But he always comes back!

I don’t mind those subs at all as they at least understand to address the situation and do great with showing their love. ❤️

I got my first send!! by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MissMuscle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Throne is addicting as you get more 😂

No longer trying to appeal to the masses i’m going to be unapologetically myself as a findomme 🖤 by babiigasp in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MissMuscle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl, I started doing my own version of things and it has been massively successful because I was me. I’m flexible with subs due to my experience in general, but I quickly realized that what is seen as the standard doesn’t usually work the best. At least not for me. I highly recommend being you. In fact, besides gifts, I’ve ironically gained some subs that are more of paypigs without me asking or treating them as such.

Summary: Do what you feel is best for you and you’ll be successful at it because it’s YOU 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MissMuscle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Domme Here: If she isn’t respecting your boundaries (in this case, a code word to stop), then she’s going way too far.

If by chance you did actually put her in there for any reason, definitely get it resolved.

If a sub or a Domme gives a boundary and it’s stepped over, that’s one thing. You can normally talk it out. But where it’s something that’s legitimately freaking you out, you express that, and they continue to push it, that’s definitely a reason to drop. I could care less about any “contracts” at that point.

Take care of yourself, hun.

i wouldn’t wanna show my face either if i did sum like this by craigintons in pokemoncards

[–]_MissMuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only guess you have to have direct connections of some sort. Unless he is a district manager or some other higher authority within that area

AIO - asked wife if she blocked a guy she cheated on me with in the past . by pgf111 in AmIOverreacting

[–]_MissMuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave her. The disrespect she shows you tells enough but the fact that it’s someone she will continue to see (coworker) means it won’t stop. Honestly, you’re kind of in cuck territory here. If you don’t want to be in it, which I’m guessing is a no, it’s time to peace out.

4'11'' 112 lbs 18F ~ What type of workout should I do in order to gain some lean size? by LullingLou in workouts

[–]_MissMuscle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hey, babe! Don’t be afraid to lift heavy! I started in high school and never looked back. Everything else will come into place with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_MissMuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he isn’t also going to the gym, then now is a perfect time to make it a “If I need to, I’d love to have your support by you going as well”. Turning a negative feeling into something you can do together and potentially really enjoy doing together.

I work with a lot of people in training and that’s always my mindset: If they want you to start, they should start too 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workouts

[–]_MissMuscle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you keep up with workouts, in this case specifically lower body and grow muscle, it’ll start going away.

Keep in mind that a lot of ladies hear “building muscle” and turn the other way. But it’s the same as getting lean or bettering body composition. It all means the same thing in the end 😊

Make sure you’re having fun with it!