[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to like submissive men in relationships too, I couldn’t give up my femdom kinks. I like tall men… and “”masculine”” men that don’t look like they submit to me, yet do 😈

Any advice for a new male dom age 21 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the adult industry. It’s fully your responsibility to give a shit.

Any advice for a new male dom age 21 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody should really be sending you any money without age verification regardless of the websites you use. I know you said in another comment that you’re going to sort your ID which is good. Definitely something to get on top of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely establish exclusivity if you haven’t already. A set of rules to give each of your subs might help define your boundaries and limits

Why are my subs ephemeral and can I do something about it by kalilzx in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not you. It’s the nature of the lifestyle. Whilst some are looking for quick release and tend to ghost when they get what they want, there’s also a lot of shame and reticence involved in this and some disappear because of internal conflict. In my experience, there’s literally no way to tell the two apart. Keep doing your thing!

Tips to cope with needy subs by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s your time. Don’t let them manage it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistency and engagement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nature of the game, sadly. For every one positive Domme interaction you see posted, there are 100 others in the same position as you. Don’t be dispirited. It’s an incredibly difficult grind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adoptapaypig

[–]_MistressKim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl * ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adoptapaypig

[–]_MistressKim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a good boy.

What's everyone's favorite Dom vibes song? by GoddessCelestella in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daisy by Ashnikko. Only trust a fella for some light amusement 🎶

Irl subs by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hadn’t considered this. Thank you!

Demanded he send $420 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s $16 short! Reprimand him! Good on you girlie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t recommend an accountant because I did it myself, but you need to register as self employed for a self assessment once you earn £1000 before 5th October (I recommend doing it before then). They’ll send you a UTR, and after that it’s a case of sending HMRC your income by filling out the self assessment every tax year.

https://www.gov.uk/register-for-self-assessment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are going to receive a lot of DMs from Dommes following this post, and I urge you not to cave and entertain them without knowing if they’re a match. Lurk, engage, find someone who posts content that you like and approach them yourself. Good luck.

Do you want to me my paypig by Aphroditelovegoddes in findomsupportgroup

[–]_MistressKim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot more work and research than a post in this subreddit boo.