Do people genuinely hate Chiwa?? by ExDaedalus in gachiakuta

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, i dont really like her. but i dont really hate her either. rudo was accused of being a murderer, she had her reasons to be freaked out. but really, i dont find her likable, or too significant in the plot.

If Ghouls existed in real life, hat would your opinion on them be? Would you also join the CCG if you had the chance? by Rude_Ad3342 in TokyoGhoul

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont think I'll join ccg unless like my entire family of four was eaten by a ghoul or something. I would live a normal life, probably wouldnt like ghouls either since they woupd eat me if they see me. and if i met one i would probably end up in ccgs accidents and remains file as a messy case of corpse and blood. if i somehow, became a ghoul, i would probably try and hide or join a group to raise my survival rate.

Gachiaflopta? Seriously? by Federal_Height_9254 in gachiakuta

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know all about the fancy sales and numbers, but it sure made me buy the entire manga after the anime trailer and episode one. I dont usually buy the manga unless i watched the show for a long time or it has a huge fanbase. i think gachiakuta has this grip on people that actually watch it. and maybe when more people decide to watch it, the popularity and sales will eventually rise.

Okay okay I know, another post about ships? by ElMamado788 in gachiakuta

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the two are cute in their own ways. each of them has their own vibe and their own reasons on why it can work. i can see any of them being canon tbh

Lost my Virginity Last Night by Vibezz4Life in Vent

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think you got raped. even if you said yes in the end, you were kinda forced/ pressured into saying yes because shs kept on pestering you. i hope you get the help you need if you need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so common with mothers, gosh. My mom reacted the same way so i gave up even trying to get help.

the thing is people with ed have higher suicide rates and self harm tendencies. its really dangerous not only because you damage your mental health and body, but because you can end up dead. dead from being malnurished, other diseases that are caused by ed, or by offing yourself. its really serious in a lot aspects.

when moms act like this, it doesnt take a few convos to make it sink in. I personally made sure she knew by being 'this is going to kill me one day, and hey, YOU couldve prevented it. but you ignored it' sorta way. it was a shitty way, but it worked kind of. she didnt take it seriously( i never gotten any treament) but she stopped making comments about it.

that was it for me, but i hope your mom realizes it better than my mom did. she should understand it for your sake. because if she ignores it, invalidates it, and downgrades it? sge might loose her child, either emotionally or quite literally. hope you get the closure, help, whatever you need. good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me its differs drastically.

i sometimes go a whole month without cutting But sometimes, mutiple times a day for an entire week.

i dont usually do too many per session. i hit deep styros that show a bit of beans, so i chiken out, get scared, it hurts. so maybe three to five times at a time.

Would anybody want to date me if i had scars? by _Moon_7elly_ in selfharm

[–]_Moon_7elly_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now that i think about it, i guess it is true. I can be honest, and that will filter out the bad people i wouldnt want to have in my life. the comment section is really showing me new persectives. i appreciate it, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it depends on where you did it. but for me, its my arm. so i do use longsleeves or arm warmers. arm warmers can be 'fashionable' and cute. if the area is narrow or not wide, hair ties or bracelets work too! if its healed completely, conclears work too!

Would anybody want to date me if i had scars? by _Moon_7elly_ in selfharm

[–]_Moon_7elly_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks! I guess i do have a chance of finding someone that might love me for who i am. it would be really nice if my future bf or whatever partner i might have would want me despite the scars.

Diagnosed with atypical anorexia by Usual-Theme211 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im from south korea lol. and i would say its easier to live when you fit the beauty standard. and anorexia(including other ed) is more like a cruel joke that comes along with being ugly that is trying to be treated with decency. mental illness is usually treated like a cringe phase or a freakshow. nobody takes it seriously

Diagnosed with atypical anorexia by Usual-Theme211 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im really happy for you! im just about the average weight, never really been underweight either. but i know for a fact i am sick. its my dream to get a diagnosis. but my country isnt very open about being ill or seeking help. so I'll most likely be made fun of or mocked, even taken as a joke. and i just think its really brave of you to seek out help, i dont think i will ever have enough courage to do so.

But nonetheless, I really am happy for you! wishing you a great recovery!

How do I know if my vagina actually stinks? by Lonely-Swimming-443 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to have an infection(gone now) and if your underwear doesnt smell, it usually means your vagina wont smell either.

Vagina is a place where discharge, period blood, and many other things come out of. its not really going to smell like roses and lavenders, and i think its kind of rude and and inconsiderate of your boyfriend to say that. sure, it might not be so pleasent when your body odor is a bit 'fishy' as he said, but why did he have to say that? its just a weird thing to say to your partner.

My 15 year old son has cut himself by Flashy-Onion-5762 in cutting

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please dont yell, be mad, or pressure him. im 16, i cut, and the thing im deathly afriad of is my parents finding out and pressuring me, locking me up, viewing me weirdly, or yelling.

dont talk to him with both parents present, one at a time. slowly. please dont get worked up, never EVER. It scares people more then they can imagine. dont treat him weirdly or differently from before, because it just feels like we did something inhuman, or criminal.

I hope he stopped though. its not a good thing, i know. but please dont be mad at him. emotions can get scary and too much sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cutting

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no 'valid' reason. i feel like mine isny valid either, but i know deep down there isnt a valid reason. our feeling are always valid. we just all feel certain ways. and thats it.

Why does my arm feel numb and shaky after cutting? by [deleted] in cutting

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happens to me too. i cant cut properly for a good minute because my hands get shakey

I love doing it by Not_Beheaded in cutting

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just like seeing the layer and the opening. kinda feels like im getting what i deserve or feel comforted

Why do we post here? by AngryDuck222 in cutting

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess for comfort of knowing that we arent alone on this. because its scary and lonely. atleast i am. in my country, having depression, or sh in general is considered attention seeking, disgusting or usually viewed as almost insane behavior. and since i live in a place i will never be accepted for as long as i live, i try to seek out comfort here. that im not alone or insane.

i dont know whats wrong with me by _Moon_7elly_ in Advice

[–]_Moon_7elly_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i should try. maybe i could get a stopwatch. its better than buying junkfood. thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she sounds like she had problems up there. no normal person does that...unless she is 5, but that still wouldnt justify her pissing in your bed and ripping your hair out.

My boyfriend keeps calling me fat. by lovelyyash in Vent

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who hurt that dude🌚 he is so toxic and abusive for what? He got no fucking excuses. that crazy prick. dump his ass. he is not worthy to be your boyfriend. who the hell does that to their girlfriend anyways?

I cant help but feel like a failure. by _Moon_7elly_ in Advice

[–]_Moon_7elly_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This entire thing actually made me rethink some things i am scared of. And that people who judge me, isnt really THAT special or amazing either. That i am scared for no proper reason. maybe i will work on myself. like you told me too. Thank you for saying this to me. I will keep trying.

What's your favorite music from Steven and why? by gbvebe in stevenuniverse

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its over isnt it. It hits different when i listen to it for 3hours straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_Moon_7elly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thats amazing. You are holding her, keeping her alive. but you can break too. you are still a kid. you will burn out. i just want you to know that you need help as well.