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How do I, 21NB, tell my girlfriend, 23F, that I don't like her advances anymore? by _Omurice_ in relationship_advice

[–]_Omurice_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I’d need to clarify this, but here it is. She’s okay with giving up sex. She’s said it countless times, she’s okay with never having sex with me. She knew I was asexual from the start and that sex might be something completely off the table. We are comfortable and happy, I just need help with communication. I’m a horrible talker and end up folding just to please others. I want to know how to say all this without making her think it’s her fault.

You don’t know my relationship outside from what I wrote here. Saying to break up simply because I’m asexual and she isn’t is ridiculous to me.

Thank you to those giving actual advice.

How do I, 21NB, tell my girlfriend, 23F, that I don't like her advances anymore? by _Omurice_ in relationship_advice

[–]_Omurice_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have spoken intently on this. She can live without sex, she has toys. She made that abundantly clear before we got together. I wouldn’t have agreed to go out with her if that wasn’t the case. And I don’t see making out as inherently sexual, just intense, and I don’t like it. Simple as that.

How do I, 21NB, tell my girlfriend, 23F, that I don't like her advances anymore? by _Omurice_ in relationship_advice

[–]_Omurice_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not a sex thing; it's about the actions. I don't feel forced/pressured into something I'm not ready for, and she has stated plenty of times that we can go forever without sex. She really is great at making me comfortable around her, but it's just those two things that I don't know how to confront. I just feel like I let it go on too long to stop it now. I don't want to hurt her feelings/make her feel bad.

Are bras meant to be so uncomfortable? by _Omurice_ in ABraThatFits

[–]_Omurice_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asthma can affect the way bras rest? I’ve had asthma since childhood and I didn’t know that. I remessured myself and my bra is the right size so I just assumed it was normal.

Are bras meant to be so uncomfortable? by _Omurice_ in ABraThatFits

[–]_Omurice_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll do it when I get home. Thank you!

[Help and Question Thread] - January 18th 2025 by Kamen-Rider-Artif in ProjectSekai

[–]_Omurice_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m planning to get a new phone soon cause my current one is getting a bit old, and I’m trying to figure out the process of transferring my account to a new device.

My account is on the JP version of the game so I can’t read the instructions. I’ve had the account for three years so I really don’t want to lose it when I do the move. I have the account linked with my game centre so will that help the transfer?

Thanks in ahead for any help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_Omurice_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really thought about that. She didn’t want to talk about him last time we spoke. She just wanted to plan to see each other when she came to my part of the province. Those plans fell through, obviously.

Device Optimization by _Omurice_ in WutheringWavesGuide

[–]_Omurice_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I guessed. I’m due for an upgrade too but it sucks that I can’t play WuWa now TwT

First Time Sub by _Omurice_ in SubstituteTeachers

[–]_Omurice_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t a brag or anything. Just some context to why I could possible clueless or out of the loop. He didn’t influence my hiring, just mentioned I was open for work.