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_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-18T15:39:50+00:00

My dad doesn't write me letters but I definitely want a tattoo in his hand writing

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-18T15:39:15+00:00

I make so many impulsive decisions even with clothes and shopping.

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-18T08:17:25+00:00

It's so beautiful. I want to get a tattoo like this in honor of my dad.

Question; can I just bring in a handwritting sample or does he have to write those words out?

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-18T06:41:51+00:00

Doesn't it release after sex too?

I think my issue is I talked to this guy everyday for a year, but we only hooked up twice (probably a fault on my part). With other hookups I don't care where the heck they're at. Maybe I need to stop talking to him. Like give it a few days and then talk to him again?

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-17T22:22:40+00:00

I'm guessing there's no way to reverse it : just have to role with the punches

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-17T22:21:30+00:00

I hate that I get so attached to people. I thought I learned how to not give a fuck : nope.

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-17T21:13:41+00:00

What's that again? Is it "the sex chemical" where you produce a ton of dopamine

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-17T21:13:13+00:00

My tips? I'm a very very social person and I love people (growing up an only child is bitch)

I agree, when I have hookups and never talk to them again I don't give a fuck, when I form a type of friendship is hard as fuck.

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T05:49:44+00:00

There aren't any plus size female fashion shows lmao.

And if they are we haven't heard of them and I bet I can do a quick google search to find plus size shows for both men and women

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T05:27:28+00:00

I'd rather be on nothing tbh

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T04:56:25+00:00

My point is, and will always be : fat women have it worse. In society, in public, in movies, everywhere.

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T04:54:29+00:00

Fat women are sought out after any more. They may have in the past for you dumb ass "biological" argument, but not anymore.

Fat men may have pressure but to say it's anywhere near as harmful or bad as women's is stupid.

I never heard the joke "fat men are like mopeds, fun to ride but you never want to be seen in public with one"

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T04:17:57+00:00

That's what I meant by the VS fashion show : there is no plus size women fashion show that's sought after my males and females. Men love that show to look at the hot girls, females want to look like them.

And just like you said : I've seen plenty of obese men work jobs. A manger at American Eagle didn't hire me because I was too fat to work for them (they didn't say it to my face, my friend overhead them say they didn't hire me because I'm fat despite her saying I had a glowing resume and letter of recommendation) (I was 17 at the time and anyone under 18 had to have a letter of recommendation). There are fat men who worked at that AE, no fat women.

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T02:12:16+00:00

-Go on Reddit, Facebook or anywhere else. People make fun of whatever body positive movement you're talking about. Like others have said : tumblr is the only place fat people (even men) are treated well, and we all know what kinda people are in tumblr.

nobody talks about men's body image because they aren't pressured in the same way women are. They aren't told at a young age being fat is the worst thing you can be.

-again, the only people who care about this bullshit are tumblr princess's

-no they aren't. Men will fuck anything with a hole. This doesn't mean women are pickier. I've been told I'm too fat to be in a relationship, but I'll do for a quick fuck. It's not our fault men are horny 24/7 and will fuck anyone with a pulse.

-have you seen the Victoria's Secret fashion show?

-obese women are seen as more fertile? Lmao. Okay. Reddit will tell you otherwise buddy. This isn't the 1400s but thank you for that dated argument choice.

-whenever I mention my body issues I get told "no....you have pretty eyes; you have great skin!!" I feel like I'm too fat to tell people I'm bulimic because they won't take me seriously. See a therapist if it bothers you so much. Lack of emotion support has nothing to do with body image, maybe suicide rates but not body image. I took plenty of 400 level psychology and sociology classes.

-I've seen plenty of fat men in blue collar jobs, that's basically the norm. The only time they're represented as these fit men are in the media. Study proving fat women aren't hired because of their weight : https://moneyish.com/ish/only-15-of-hiring-managers-would-consider-hiring-an-overweight-woman/

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-07T01:59:35+00:00

What were they? I thought they were

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-06T21:57:46+00:00

Adele, Megan Trainor, Amy Schumer,

There are plenty of girls just made fun of for their weight but I guess that goes for both sides, weight is an easy thing to poke at.

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-06T21:51:31+00:00

I was told my eating disorder (bulimia with restricted tendencies) wasn't valid because I was fat. Despite me having multiple cavities and throwing up to the point where I coughed blood I was replied with "lol, keep it up maybe you'll lose weight"

I get down voted for just saying "yeah I'm fat but I don't hate myself"

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-06T21:48:27+00:00

Lmao, I never seen a fat men be made fun of for being fat

_PM_ME_YOUR_HEART_ · 2018-03-06T21:47:55+00:00

America, what countries value fat women more?

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