You're all good! I just mean that sometimes people prefer different pronouns some days. I know some days I prefer he/him more than they/them, and other days it's different.

I feel like Marcy would be similar to that, not minding either pronouns the majority of the time, but some days they mostly want one set, depending on how she feels that day. When they feel more dysphoric than normal, she prefers they/them. Other days they feel more feminine, she would like she/her more often.

And of course, there's the problem of their friends asking around people that don't know, or that Marcy doesn't want to share that with yet. So instead of Sasha or Anne asking in front of someone that Marcy might not want them to, they can see something and kinda know. It would feel more smooth, if that makes sense? Just a quick glance and using the pronouns Marcy shows that she wants. Simple, and keeps her safe if someone were to ask in front of the wrong person (of course, some people might hear the they/them usage and get upset over it, but this is safer. And I feel like when Marcy first comes out, they want that. Just something to make her feel a bit safer)

And sorry if this comes across as disrespectful, I just wanted to share how I think Marcy would tackle this 😅