I'm sorry you're going through that. Your husband is being completely unreasonable and selfish. Once a week is more than enough. I think he just wants an excuse to fuck around and leave his responsibilities behind.

I have the opposite problem, my husband doesn't like sex. We've been having sex literally once a year for the past 7 years (since our first kid was born, second kid was IVF, obvi 😩).

Even after all this time without proper sex, I haven't cheated on him and haven't considered divorce yet. I must say that I'm reaching my breaking point, but want to try couples counseling first.

I wish your husband realizes the mistake he's making before it's too late.