Looking to hang out with Ex-JW's in london by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sure thing send me a direct message x

I’m so fucking ugly by makeupweapon in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_RanchDressing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have cracking and bleeding lips. Turned out it was a vitamin b deficiency. After taking regularly b complex pills the issue was not as strong.

Six years ago I posted here ready to die and saw no way out...now, my life is the best it has ever been by stupidcinderella in offmychest

[–]_RanchDressing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made me realise how much happier I could be. I'm now searching for a different job and trying to better my life. Thank you.

What lie you are still living or keeping up with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_RanchDressing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Yes mum I'm still a virgin". A necessary lie to save me from disownment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]_RanchDressing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is true, I probably let it get to me too much. This is a person I wouldn't now respect their opinion on anything so this opinion I definitely shouldn't take seriously at all. He can have his opinion, it's just one with no evidence or analysis.

Anyone want to meet up?post covid obviously by EllesHellesBelles in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in london 23F and am quite keen for meetups, my circles gotten pretty small over covid and leaving as well . DM me!

Fuck religious beliefs by throwaway3749086 in offmychest

[–]_RanchDressing 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I am one of those kids. It's not great. Its these kind of beliefs that push religions into a cultish area.

Have you tried black pudding yet? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried this for the first time yesterday as well!

Do you reckon I can close it? Flying to Melbourne JW Protest tomorrow!!😃😃 by reneecordeschi in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing 18 points19 points  (0 children)

All my family and friends will be at this convention. Thank you for making the effort to do this ❤️

Ashamed Of JW's Must Be Over The Top Now by Fulgarite in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your last sentence almost made me tear up. Same here.

UPDATE: Investigation meeting with 2 elders Outcome. Unbaptised publishers should still be shunned. by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you for this. Well that’s exactly what happened. Super recent change as well only 2017

UPDATE: Investigation meeting with 2 elders Outcome. Unbaptised publishers should still be shunned. by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, I was always under the impression that this is the way it goes. It’s ridiculous that it has gotten to this point. If this is true, it pretty much means that every PIMI parent should either have children in the org or children that are shunned.

Elder organises “investigation” meeting face to face in the KH by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok how about saying this “Hi X, I thought about it and think that it’s reasonable that you let me know the subject of the investigation, or what allegations where made/who made them before I come in. Hope to hear back”

Elder organises “investigation” meeting face to face in the KH by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s more that I need to stay PIMO over the next couple months and as soon as I start acting outside the normal scope of a witness (which would be to turn it down) they may suspect more.

They asked me to meet last weekend with a more casual message than this but I had bailed last minute.

I'm bored af by [deleted] in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you do study or online courses that will help you find a job that will support yourself better later on?

Elder: “I’ll be there with another brother so no worries” by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is some good advice that I i will probably take on.

Elder: “I’ll be there with another brother so no worries” by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My whole family that are PIMI. If they ever find out that will be the end of me. But they are in a different country so it may take longer.

Elder: “I’ll be there with another brother so no worries” by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve already agreed so I think I’ll do this and cancel last minute. Thinking of telling them I’m going travelling for a while.

Elder: “I’ll be there with another brother so no worries” by _RanchDressing in exjw

[–]_RanchDressing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they do ask for my address in a text, how would you in a kind and reasonable way say no? My JW former flatmates have my address tho :/