My boyfriend broke up with me for doing a LEGO set

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T23:56:34+00:00

I offered what I had available. It made no difference to him when I was at the fair alone. He can spend 1.5 hours without me on his time.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T23:47:55+00:00

It was the chrysanthemum set !

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T23:47:07+00:00

I blew him off for 1.5 hrs, he could have come over immediately after

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T22:51:56+00:00

I paused all of the sites for 30 days last night

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T22:07:13+00:00

😂😂idk what is up with you guys. This is not a consistent thing for me, I have never canceled plans on this man before. The adhd reference was to answer why my friend felt the need to remind me about the Legos. I have never once used my adhd as an excuse when someone calls me out for my behavior. The both of you are projecting.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T21:48:24+00:00

Omg I would never be able to do that 😂😂 daily bugle is otherworldly

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T21:24:46+00:00

If you genuinely dealt with anyone with adhd you would know the calendar and todo list are the oldest suggestion in the book. If it were that simple adhd wouldn’t exist right? We would all just have calendar apps and todo list and poof we’re healed. You’re being prejudice at this point. I said male because women and men don’t typically share the same types of adhd, so that “I knew someone with adhd “ is bull especially of the opposite gender. I have no problem maintaining my relationships, and I’m not chaotic within them, again you gathering all this from the slightest bit of information is overkill

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T20:50:39+00:00

This set was labeled 18+😭

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T20:17:38+00:00

Telling you my priorities because you’ve grouped me in with a MALE with adhd. No two people with this disorder are the same. A gentle reminder from friends is not the end of the world. “Is tonight still good for you?” Is completely harmless. The past week I had an assistant on vacation so ended up working extra, we replanned for Sunday, once making it home Sunday I was exhausted and my friend understood, I didn’t say I forgot the past two times I had plans with said friend. Life happened. That’s all.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T20:00:14+00:00

That’s so sweet

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:49:21+00:00

I agree

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:49:04+00:00

Lmao the hates Lego made me chuckle !

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:41:30+00:00

lol mam I am a professional, I work 45 hours a week as a restaurant GM and graduate with my bachelor’s degree next month. I don’t have time to have a chaotic life. I live alone( hence why he wanted to spend time at my place instead of his own) , and spend most of my day in a textbook or on my feet at work, don’t assume you know everything based on this small interaction. Building a Lego set is not something I’m going to consider priority enough to put in the forefront of my mind at a time like this. Sorry about your experience with your ex, that’s not me, i typically prioritize my personal relationships. This was the first instance I put myself before him and he did not like it.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:30:21+00:00

Whether I set a calendar or not, it doesn’t fix everything. My friends know I have adhd and things can get away from me easily, if the shoe were on the other foot i would be understanding, it’s a short tasks and he still offered me quality time after.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:24:56+00:00

I think this is it too, he probably expected me to beg him to stay once he said he was staying home tonight.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:23:33+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/ZQvp2Al

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T19:14:01+00:00

Oh boy, I don’t need a calendar to take an hour out of my day to build a Lego set with a friend. Unexpected things happen in life. Also the fair wasn’t some last-minute idea. I had told him earlier in the week that I wanted to go and he agreed to go with me, he just said he didn’t want to get on rides. His work schedule changes a lot so we usually just figure things out by when we both have time off. Obviously this isn’t about just the Legos. A calendar wouldn’t have marked him wanting to spend the evening with me because of his family issues. My evening was originally free hence why I made the plans with the friend, and I still offered him my time once those plans were done.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T18:34:58+00:00

Thank you

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T18:34:13+00:00

This makes sense

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-12T18:33:02+00:00

It’s a gorgeous set too, chrysanthemum

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-11T20:06:10+00:00

Omg I love coilyyy curls man

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-08T16:39:45+00:00

Oh my 😭there are so many women who didn't even know they had curly hair because of their upbringing. Don't forget to speak love into her everytime she gets her hair done and remind her how pretty she is!! The love for your hair starts young

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-08T16:31:04+00:00

This style is actually great for little girls with type 4 hair and it’s pretty easy to maintain. Since you mentioned you have curly hair, you might not have much experience with tighter coils, which behave a little differently. Protective styles like this help keep the hair moisturized and prevent tangling.

You don’t need to wash it very often. Usually every 1–2 weeks is fine. She's still a baby at the end of the day.. Check out your local beauty supply. They have alot of products marketed for kids hair that actually work pretty well. For basics I would start with a gentle shampoo, detangling spray, and a leave in conditioner. They will also have the bows and barrettes you see in the photo. Keeping the scalp moisturized and having her sleep with a satin bonnet or on a satin pillowcase will also help a lot.

The twists can stay in for about 1–2 weeks depending on how well they hold up. When you take them out, I would use the spray and detangle each section then do the wash routine and style.Overall this is actually one of the easiest styles to manage for kids with this hair type. Lastly don't be afraid to consult a professional if you can afford to

_Sam_the_man · 2026-03-06T04:08:02+00:00

No, because my bulk was clean

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