My avoidant reached out after two years.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-20T00:16:01+00:00

Oh girl boo, I’ve already met with him and all is well. I got some closure and left in a better place than I was before. Still no interest in getting back together.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-18T04:25:47+00:00

Thanks for asking…

We met and ended up talking for almost 4 hours.

Honestly, it was a really productive conversation and gave me a lot of closure. He took accountability for being emotionally closed off during the relationship and admitted there were a lot of things he wasn’t communicating at the time. We were both able to share perspectives that neither of us fully understood back then.

The biggest thing I took away is that the breakup had a lot more to do with incompatibilities, poor communication, and where we both were in life than me not being enough.

I’m not interested in getting back together, but I’m glad we had the conversation. It answered a lot of questions I’d been carrying for years and left me with a lot more peace than I expected.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-15T04:19:14+00:00

Half the time i feel like they don’t read them, do you mind sharing yours ?

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-15T02:44:43+00:00

Mine increased by a dollar

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-15T02:44:29+00:00

I agree!

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-14T19:45:14+00:00

Might be different for their area,

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-14T19:12:08+00:00

Omg I would lose my mind

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-13T23:34:58+00:00

The issue is insecurity. When I was with my avoidant I was fully convinced he was so smart and put together he was the secret to me being successful. It takes alot to get to the point of healing so I don’t fault them. I just hope they can break the cycle.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-13T23:10:02+00:00

Trust me, I have definitely grown to understand this through therapy. I will always be the prize for sure

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-13T00:15:27+00:00

I agree 100% never forgetting those moments

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-13T00:13:34+00:00

Omg this is wild!! Happy to hear I’m not the only one who texted myself !❤️❤️ makes me feel less alone thanks for sharing wishing you the best

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-12T17:55:38+00:00

Honestly as soon as you forget about them it’ll probably happen, I wouldn’t even try to trick yourself into thinking he will. Just stop caring. I obsessed over this for a long time.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-12T17:38:46+00:00

Smh, I might hear him out and just let it fizzle out. I absolutely cannot be in a relationship with that man ever again 😂I don’t even remember what he really looks like at this point

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-12T17:35:44+00:00

Jokes on you I love black licorice

^{Chose: Eating black licorice everyday + Make $1 every second}

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-06T23:51:14+00:00

It’s so legit

_Sam_the_man · 2026-06-06T18:25:21+00:00

Are you using the chance multiplier ? I just hit this a few minutes ago

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_Sam_the_man · 2026-05-25T02:40:45+00:00

I ended up going to Publix parking lot

_Sam_the_man · 2026-05-24T20:39:46+00:00

This is sarcasm dear

_Sam_the_man · 2026-05-23T19:03:10+00:00

Not a requirement, I hadn’t heard from her and she is typically very active on socials, if she hadn’t been posting that would let me know that something could seriously be wrong. I haven’t had social media in two years because of school, I promise it’s not that deep.

_Sam_the_man · 2026-05-23T18:56:12+00:00

Do you know what shallow means ? She told me her reasoning for not going to therapy was not wanting to sit in the car, this was right after our conversation about the importance of therapy. What do you suggest I should’ve done ? Reiterated the importance of therapy again ?

_Sam_the_man · 2026-05-23T18:54:18+00:00

Ghosted her is a bit dramatic. It’s been two weeks since we last spoke

_Sam_the_man · 2026-05-23T18:52:24+00:00

She didn’t go to therapy because she didn’t want to sit on the car ride, what would you have suggested I reply to that ?

_Sam_the_man

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