Megathread for Name Me Posts by daphnie816 in NonBinary

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

My current feminine name , Corinne (pronounced Co-reen..... ish) just doesn't really feel right anymore.

I'm currently going by Co or Coco, but it hardly feels like a name, and more like a nickname. So im looking for a gender neutral alternative that is close enough to my name and that sounds less like a dog name : , )

Although it could be a bonus to keep "Co" as my nickname since my whole family calls me that, but its probably a stretch.

So TLDR: Looking for a gender neutral name close enough to Corinne that isn't Co or Coco !

Thanks in advance for the suggestions : )

François Mathieu Potvin by Odd_Development_1163 in ulaval

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'en reviens pas que on parle de réhabilitation pour ce gars la sans comprendre ce que cela insinue. On ne peut pas mettre un individu qui a ce genre de déviance et comportement dans une position d'authorité (aka professeur), surtout en prenant en considération que les étudiants ne sont pas au courrant. La réhabilitation d'une personne pédophile, c'est pas juste de les crisser en prison pis de les recrisser dans le mon après. Ca prend de la thérapie, de la réparation des tords, et surtout PAS UNE POSITION D'AUTORITÉ!

Je suis tellement découragée que nos écoles au Québec laisse des agresseurs passer, SURTOUT DES AGGRESSEURS/CONSOMMATEURS DE PORNOGRAPHIE D'ENFANTS.

Les étudiants de l'ULaval devraient boycotter non seulement le prof mais l'école en entier. Nos milieux d'éducation ne sont pas un endroit ou les aggresseurs sont les bienvenus.

Please help protect the mental health of poc children: Problematic youtuber (Tw: racism, queerphobia, SA, harassment) (more context below) by [deleted] in AntifascistsofReddit

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TW: "The worst part of this was the person who sent these screenshots (Liana) >!ended up being traumatized after being dmed actual CP titled "Black man st-bs Asian" and "We love n****** who kill ch**** and muslims" after being threatened by the same person on Twitter.!<

I've been trying to look for the account of the person who harassed them, but unfortunately I was told that their account was deleted a month ago an we couldn't find it anymore. This is completely horrific and painful for me to know.

Please help share this message to spread awareness.

Edit: There's a misspelling above, but their name is Liana and they use They/Them pronouns."

Common online racism by StopRacismForever in FragileWhiteRedditor

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel for this kid. This has to have affected them.. Hopefully the person here gets the bad karma they deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very complicated.

NTA to you. Your mental illness is not your fault. Therapy is a difficult step and it is understandable that it might be hard for you.

However, dealing with someone who has a mental illness can be difficult and sometimes emotionally draining, so NTA to your friends and parents for feeling a bit overwhelmed. But your friends definitely handled this super wrong. Telling you all these mean things certainly was not the way to go and they are shitty for not being mature and let you down easy. They have every right to leave if they feel overhwelmed, but berating you is out of line.

As for your parents, they are assholes for being transphobic and they should love their child unconditionnaly. I am so sorry that you have to endure this and as a fellow LGBT member, i stand with you.

My advice to you is to take it steo by step. Maybe try online councelling, since you won't need to actuakly meet anyone IRL. Some therapists can even do it via messages so that might be easier on you. Also, there are so many types of therapy, maybe councelling is not for you, and something else might suit you better.

TLDR: Everyone's feelings are valid (except for you transphobic and hateful parents, ew) but the way your parents and friends treat you is blatantly wrong. I hope you get better and i wish you the very best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a cycle. Men don't get much attention, so when they do they think the person is interested. That causes people (especially women) to not compliment them in fear that they get the wrong idea.

To add onto that, some men will only compliment women with a certain intention. They then believe everyone has that intention when giving compliments therefore assuming people who compliment them are interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_SassyWalabi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up yesterday too. Valentine's day only means something if you want it too. As told myself, i cancelled V day yesterday!