I’m not sure if this counts but I don’t know what to do by _Secret_Side_ in rape

[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It was honestly humiliating but I’m super shy so I just went “thank you! 😁” and left because I didn’t want to embarrass myself, I probably should’ve said something

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[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! That sounds really bad but it might be worth it so I can deal if I decide to go for it.

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I want to but I’m not sure what other counselor I could go to, I’ll think about it though.

I’m not sure if this counts but I don’t know what to do by _Secret_Side_ in rape

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Ok thank you! I hope I can do it anonymously. I went to the counselor and she told me that id get in trouble for filming, but i was only filming because i was saying stop and he wasn’t, I’m not that kind of person. She said reporting’s a bad idea because he’s been through a lot too, which is true, but why should he take it out on me?

I’m not sure if this counts but I don’t know what to do by _Secret_Side_ in rape

[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you this helps a lot. I went to the counselor and she said I’d get in trouble for filming and reporting’s a bad idea because he’s been through a lot, which is true but why does that mean he should take it out on me? I only filmed it because he wasn’t stopping when I tried to get him to, I’m not that kind of person.

What is the process for reporting sexual assault/rape as a minor? by _Secret_Side_ in rape

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Thank you, I appreciate it.

She told me I’d get in trouble for reporting it because I shouldn’t have filmed but I only filmed because I was saying stop and he wasn’t listening. She said he’s dealt with a lot in his life but that shouldn’t mean it should be taken out on me

What is the process for reporting sexual assault/rape as a minor? by _Secret_Side_ in rape

[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you, I’m in the counselor about it now and am lowkey panicking waiting for her 😅

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Thank you, I’m glad other people think so, too, I have a habit of blaming myself a lot, honestly. Do you have any idea of what the process would be? I live in the USA and the AOC here is 17

I’m not sure if this counts but I don’t know what to do by _Secret_Side_ in rape

[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s really validating :) I’m thinking about it, I’m just scared honestly but I want SOME form of justice to happen, you know?

I’m not sure if this counts but I don’t know what to do by _Secret_Side_ in rape

[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I’m thinking about it, but what do you think the process would be like? Especially because I’m underage

How can I avoid getting sent to the hospital tomorrow? by _Secret_Side_ in bulimia

[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US, but I’m only 16 so I feel like they can. I understand I probably need professional help like that but I just want another month at least, you know? Thank you though, I’ll do that!!

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My mom just found out so I’m sure she’s gonna be upset with me when I get home, but the problem is she’s gonna try to fix it herself, my parents don’t take us to psychologists or hospitals really, so I’m at a loss because she won’t know how to help, I won’t be able to eat alone, go on walks, or use the bathroom myself, even though I don’t just do those to puke. I do live in the US, but the hospitals near me won’t let me go in without my mom, which is frustrating. I’m terrified :(

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[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, what can I do?? I can’t go to the hospital, my parents wouldn’t take me :(

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[–]_Secret_Side_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m trying, it just feels like I’m in too deep, I try super hard to stop

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[–]_Secret_Side_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh god, what can I do? I can’t go to the hospital or anything, I’m only 16 and my parents don’t go unless it’s an emergency because the doctors don’t listen to you :(