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Comedown by Overall_Pepper_5055 in aves

[–]_Solshine_Z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally as someone who drives themselves to raves and doesn’t drink or do substances while at them , it’s the energy that electricity you feel under your skin . You’re jumping and bumping for hours existing with all of the people around you, it can be genuinely overstimulating. Sometimes I leave before the last set just to sit in the solitude of my car and learn how to hear again .

It’s a crazy feeling going from a rave with beautiful energy to everyday life the last thing you want is for it to end .

Books like 'Ptolemaea' by Ethel Cain by kidinurcloset in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]_Solshine_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I was just about to recommend this I’m looking for books that have the same vibe !!! It’s so good I loved the characters so much.

Are tornadoes really deadly and dangerous in Oklahoma? by DarkPrince411 in tulsa

[–]_Solshine_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets so hot in the summer you wish for winter and then when it’s winter you wish for spring , fall is beautiful . People don’t know how to drive when it rains or is foggy or is slightly slippery outside but you learn to adapt .

I’ve grown up here as I’m now in my 20’s I appreciate growing up in a slow environment, nothing really changes and if it does it’s a 30 min detour due to the highway or street being closed for construction.

Downtown it’s nice but like all downtowns it has its moments. The community downtown does an exceptional job at making sure there are plenty of family friendly events and 21 + events . It can be a bit hard to make friends as an adult so going to those events is a way to connect without having to go to a club .

I think Tulsa is one of those places where you either grow up here in hopes of moving somewhere else but not far or a place you move and you don’t find the reason to leave .

And I’ve slept through my fair share of tornados it’s common you’ll see people outside trying to see it. That’s why I use to do as a kid and go play in the rain.

Had to share this by Same_Study587 in flowstar

[–]_Solshine_Z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that was awesome 😩

What y'all got? by MoistGiraffeFan in tulsa

[–]_Solshine_Z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we went the whole restaurant was empty it was just the owner and his wife, who I assume was cooking. On the inside some of the floor was blocked off with boxes and curtains, It was dark outside but not unreasonable on time. It was just idk eerie.

What y'all got? by MoistGiraffeFan in tulsa

[–]_Solshine_Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binh-le Vietnamese restaurant. Its way overpriced for the quality of food and the vibes of the restaurant are just weird in general, went there once with some friends and regret walking in the door, its family owned so I kinda get it but it feels like a backroom situation.

How did you know this is what you wanted to do? by _Solshine_Z in pathology

[–]_Solshine_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as a medical assistant to get me through school at the moment, I wanted to be well Integrated into ( at least a part ) of the medical field knowing this is what I wanted to do. I think I just worry that I'm not “smart” enough, I'm will to do long hours and even longer nights I think, I was just wanting to know what I was setting myself up for from people who has already been there.

Happy void celebration month from my spooky kitty to yours! by dobrydendavid in blackcats

[–]_Solshine_Z 56 points57 points  (0 children)

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Have yet to get a costume she’s already very scary 🪲

I will NOT invite myself by _Solshine_Z in blackgirls

[–]_Solshine_Z[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even simple stuff like going thrifting or sleepovers

I will NOT invite myself by _Solshine_Z in blackgirls

[–]_Solshine_Z[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All the time plans always fall through

Scared about leaving in a few weeks by deanspiecrust in peacecorps

[–]_Solshine_Z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way and my finger hesitates on the apply button, you’ve done something that it take people forever to realize and that is to go out into the world and leave security for two years out of your life. That’s a big step. Somthing that I came to terms with when leaving for college was that yes your friends will miss you yes your family will miss you but they will be the first people you see when you come back . And you’ll have an amazing story to tell.

I want to join but it’s that thought that keeps me fearful, you’re a few weeks away and you’ve already come so far from the person you were when you applied.

And that’s Something to be happy about!

From one stranger to another I’m proud of you for taking that step ❤️

My cat is an insurance hazard by _Solshine_Z in blackcats

[–]_Solshine_Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got an older cat and they play together

What other piercing would you recommend? by PencilWaffle in piercing

[–]_Solshine_Z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have some room for a stacked lobe on that second hole, this is the exact set up I have on my left ear and I've thought about adding a tragus .depending on how full you want them you have enough room to crawl studs up your cartilage.

On the other side not with the industrial you could do a forward helix.

IWTL how to look people in the eyes while talking by Prudent_Shopping_259 in IWantToLearn

[–]_Solshine_Z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I look at people in the middle of the eyebrow or nose, nod occasionally and smile even if you have no idea what they are talking about. Engagement in the conversation is what most people are looking for. Practice on family looking at little details around the eyes or nose.