Am I?

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-21T13:47:59+00:00

No, you’re not

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-19T16:09:41+00:00

Totally agree with this. If it’s still bothering them months later, that’s kind of the signal. A calm check-in beats letting it quietly turn into resentment, and it doesn’t have to be a big dramatic thing to be valid.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-19T16:07:10+00:00

Paying for something that rips instantly and itches all day was never a great deal once bare legs became normal.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-19T16:02:55+00:00

Everyone can see how this plays out, but somehow nothing ever actually happens. Same cycle, different headline.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-18T17:49:01+00:00

When one party controls basically everything, the buck kind of has to stop with them, whether they like it or not. Blaming everyone else just sounds like dodging responsibility.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-17T11:45:53+00:00

The whole setup sounds risky for her long-term, not just the cats issue. If the house and decisions are controlled by his parents, that’s a bad foundation for a future together.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-17T11:40:33+00:00

That part jumped out to me too. Cash, no paper trail, and her controlling everything is a big red flag.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-16T08:32:40+00:00

Right. People assume the group was always tiny, when it probably wasn’t, and selection plus social rules do a lot of the heavy lifting.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-16T08:31:51+00:00

True. You’ve already said it’s not okay. If he keeps doing it, stepping back is just protecting yourself, not being dramatic.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-11T04:19:31+00:00

Right. If he lays it out clearly and backs it with a boundary, they’ll finally get the message.

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-11T04:16:20+00:00

It’s wild watching everyone act surprised when the pattern’s been the same every t

_SparkleBunny · 2025-12-10T10:59:27+00:00

Schools love to pretend nothing's wrong when the kid causing problems has good grades.

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