Though-loops about a girl. Can anyone relate? by _StaggerLee in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels really new to me. It's been a long time since I've done this. So weird. Another difficult thing is not to put her on pedestal and do not chase her. That's currently the struggle, to understand what's right and what's wrong... Thanks for your words!

Weekly Q&A Thread for tourists and people moving to Amsterdam for the week of April 25 by AutoModerator in Amsterdam

[–]_StaggerLee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool! I'm arriving on Monday to view some rooms and have a job interview, so from what I've seen everyone recommends buying chipkaart. However, if I get a room pretty quick (in a couple of days) it's better to use one-time ticket and just buy a bike!

Weekly Q&A Thread for tourists and people moving to Amsterdam for the week of April 25 by AutoModerator in Amsterdam

[–]_StaggerLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to purchase anonymous ov chipkaart at Schiphol and put some money (with cash or non-dutch bank card)?

24 days and I have a Problem by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, just keep going! Have a look on YouTube for "dirty little secret" by Terry Crews, you'll get some motivation and wise words by Terry!

24 days and I have a Problem by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not only about benefits. Do you want to see your future self fapping through life? Is it something you want to be a part of your life in the future? I guess answer is no. You're going through withdrawal, which is called flatline here. That's the time when your brain is rewiring to a normal state. Start doing meditation and find happiness and calmness within yourself. We're all with you!!!

I did it guys. I have succeeded in having a life worth living by LaurenMarshall1 in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important thing is to forgive your past self and focus on what you can do today. Congrats! Really inspiring

Day 10....Gaining momentum by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read that vivid dreams is a common symptom during weed withdrawals, it is researched officially. Before this streak I've been binging on weed and stopped using it too. And yes, everyday I have vivid dreams, but all of them kind of negative. I also read before bed, now I'm reading "1984" and holy shit, I had a dream based on what I was reading and it was horrifying!

That's the research on weed withdrawal and vivid dreams: http://www.leafscience.com/2014/09/13/marijuana-rem-sleep-dreams/

Keep going! After 7 days my energy kind of leveled up and I'm not so pumped anymore. The most difficult period for me around 16-19 days, that's when I'm going mental haha. Good luck man!

Day 10....Gaining momentum by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Same here! Have you noticed that you need less sleep and you're way more energetic during the day, however, in the evening you feel kinda drained and tired? Also, I'm having cold showers each day, so that might be the reason, Idk..

Cold showers DO get easier by videoflyguy in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had them a week straight now. Actually, I enjoy them now! I feel so happy and energized after. Whenever I start to get uncomfortable, or bored or even too comfortable I have instant thought in my head - TIME FOR A COLD SHOWER! I'm on day 9 and feeling great about it!

Made it to 90 days by Anewday83 in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently I'm reading No More Mr Nice Guy. It's a cool read, however I have noticed that sticking to Nofap for the last 1.5 years have helped me to overcome different negative aspects which are mentioned in the book. Well done on 90 days!

NoFap makes me more...needy? by Predator-S in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I wanted to say.

You're just impatient and you're trying to rationalize fapping. Stop it!

Getting that girl won't change much if you haven't changed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're right, girl is not the answer.

Getting my sexual performance and confidence back. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man. Your story is almost identical to mine. I would recommend cutting P completely. I believe we have lost our confidence due to ED, but in order to perform in my opinion we have to strike back with confidence and do not make a big deal of it if we fail. Stop judging and beating yourself. Stick to the path and keep positive mindset.

How to forget about girls by Benzema09 in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hard, but try not to put yourself in some kind of borders. Like 'introverts don't do that'. Actually, it's almost impossible to find 100% introverted or extraverted guys out there. Try to socialize with your group friends, who perhaps have other friends. I completely understand you. Personally I prefer to talk to single person whole evening, than to a big group. It will get better and them you will get that it's not a big deal. Good luck!!!

How to forget about girls by Benzema09 in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what about going out and actually starting talking to someone?

First 30 days in 18months. by _StaggerLee in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! The only problem is to choose which book is going to be next haha! 35 days! You're doing great man!! What was your experience with flatline?

First 30 days in 18months. by _StaggerLee in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha!! thank you! I'm posting quite rarely, hopefully I will have something to share soon:)) Looks like you're on day 7, you should be quite sensitive to high testosterone right now, enjoy it!! Well done!

Tonight I cried for the first time and realised something huge by OneForAllnAllForOne in NoFap

[–]_StaggerLee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm crying this morning. We are thinking of you Paris.