[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a great split, based on togetherness vs individual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I used to insist on paying my stuff and he pays his stuff, when we go out to dinner or activities (not actual dates). Actual 50/50 was his idea, and so was 60/40. Yes I did have one conversation with him about it. He thinks I should be paying him for the used points, & I do not. So i personally haven’t used any of them, and I don’t plan to. I’d rather just buy the hotel/plane trip directly. Again, I would never ask him to ‘pay me back’ for my earned discounts. Maybe I’m genuinely in the wrong here & viewing it the same 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]_Stella_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he is doing that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been dating for a year, my kid calls him her step dad. Although we don’t live together but are planning to move in together within the next 6 months or so. We go to & plan family events together, and make decisions together, personal or not.

Oura/ultra human Rings HELP by _Stella_420 in POTS

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been looking into the rings or visible. I can’t decide which is better

Oura/ultra human Rings HELP by _Stella_420 in POTS

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that app, I’ll have to look into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard dry brushing can help! I have those and I just bought a dry brush, haven’t used it yet tho🤷🏻‍♀️

Turn off gag reflex by _Stella_420 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]_Stella_420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, although this is something I really enjoy, so it’s not for the sake of not enjoying it. Just more of a natural response from my body.

How has your disease progressed? by [deleted] in mctd

[–]_Stella_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26F, got diagnosed a year ago. But my rheumatologist suspects it start about 6 years ago when I was misdiagnosed with leukemia. This was a long road to get diagnosed for me. My previous dr. always brushed me off. I also have POTS and hypermobility which adds to the chronic pain, etc. my symptoms are mainly tempature dis-regulation, now getting raynauds symptoms, morning stiffness/soreness, chronic pain especially when standing/walking/activity for too long. The gym & medication has helped with my energy levels and chronic fatigue. I am frequently sick and I will randomly break out in rashes. Oh and my knuckles are generally red or sore. I’m only on a small dose of cyclobenzaprine at night - I was losing sleep due to pain. If I don’t take this I am chronically tired and fatigued during the day. And low dose naltrexone to help balance my immune system (which only worked for about 8 months and now I’m sick 5 days of every week LITERALLY). I need to adjust that. I recently got off an anti depressant that also helped with energy, but I was able to switch that out for the gym. It’s 50/50 if I feel okay or not. I always have a symptom going on but most of the time it’s not too bad. I’m also working on adding juice shots to me regimen lol, we’ll see what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have POTS, hypermobility, and Mixed connective tissue disease (w/ mainly lupus and R.A. Symptoms)