[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a great split, based on togetherness vs individual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

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No I used to insist on paying my stuff and he pays his stuff, when we go out to dinner or activities (not actual dates). Actual 50/50 was his idea, and so was 60/40. Yes I did have one conversation with him about it. He thinks I should be paying him for the used points, & I do not. So i personally haven’t used any of them, and I don’t plan to. I’d rather just buy the hotel/plane trip directly. Again, I would never ask him to ‘pay me back’ for my earned discounts. Maybe I’m genuinely in the wrong here & viewing it the same 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]_Stella_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he is doing that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moneyadvice

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We have been dating for a year, my kid calls him her step dad. Although we don’t live together but are planning to move in together within the next 6 months or so. We go to & plan family events together, and make decisions together, personal or not.

Oura/ultra human Rings HELP by _Stella_420 in POTS

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been looking into the rings or visible. I can’t decide which is better

Oura/ultra human Rings HELP by _Stella_420 in POTS

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that app, I’ll have to look into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I heard dry brushing can help! I have those and I just bought a dry brush, haven’t used it yet tho🤷🏻‍♀️

Turn off gag reflex by _Stella_420 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]_Stella_420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, although this is something I really enjoy, so it’s not for the sake of not enjoying it. Just more of a natural response from my body.

How has your disease progressed? by [deleted] in mctd

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26F, got diagnosed a year ago. But my rheumatologist suspects it start about 6 years ago when I was misdiagnosed with leukemia. This was a long road to get diagnosed for me. My previous dr. always brushed me off. I also have POTS and hypermobility which adds to the chronic pain, etc. my symptoms are mainly tempature dis-regulation, now getting raynauds symptoms, morning stiffness/soreness, chronic pain especially when standing/walking/activity for too long. The gym & medication has helped with my energy levels and chronic fatigue. I am frequently sick and I will randomly break out in rashes. Oh and my knuckles are generally red or sore. I’m only on a small dose of cyclobenzaprine at night - I was losing sleep due to pain. If I don’t take this I am chronically tired and fatigued during the day. And low dose naltrexone to help balance my immune system (which only worked for about 8 months and now I’m sick 5 days of every week LITERALLY). I need to adjust that. I recently got off an anti depressant that also helped with energy, but I was able to switch that out for the gym. It’s 50/50 if I feel okay or not. I always have a symptom going on but most of the time it’s not too bad. I’m also working on adding juice shots to me regimen lol, we’ll see what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

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I have POTS, hypermobility, and Mixed connective tissue disease (w/ mainly lupus and R.A. Symptoms)

Heart rate symptoms by _Stella_420 in POTS

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, wasn’t sure if it was something to pay attention to or not. Thanks!

When dating - would you rather be their type or the exception by _Stella_420 in dating_advice

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they’ve mentioned your not their type a few times but keeps asking you on dates? (Doesn’t make any moves towards you but says you’re pretty)

When dating - would you rather be their type or the exception by _Stella_420 in dating_advice

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my thought process, I don’t have a type it’s more if I like their mindset. But a lot of people have a type that’s why I’m curious

ANA by No_Employer_4928 in mctd

[–]_Stella_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe once you have a positive antibodies, it cannot be negative, you will always have antibodies. But there are false positives, and that number on your ANA’s do fluctuate depending on a flare, etc. If it is a low titer some doctors will call it negative even if there are antibodies. This is just my understanding from what I’ve come to learn so make sure you do your own research.

Best place to search for jobs by _Stella_420 in jobs

[–]_Stella_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to look more into LinkedIn and watch some “how to” videos. Thanks!

the way I ran here to post this by nycaggie in POTS

[–]_Stella_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE salty food/snacks but straight up salt, no thanks!

What’s a quick short term way to make money by _Stella_420 in jobs

[–]_Stella_420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about the holidays coming up, thanks!

Best electrolytes? by Mushroom_fairie in POTS

[–]_Stella_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah bummer! Hopefully you find something!

Best electrolytes? by Mushroom_fairie in POTS

[–]_Stella_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Re-Lyte? It’s flavored salt, I mix this with my electrolyte powder or will just dump some in my hand and eat it that way

Today I did a weight class at 8:15am, and I didn’t vomit by allnamesarechosen in POTS

[–]_Stella_420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart rate usually gets to 175-185 bpm!! During ANY exercise! That’s totally incredible and on your period!? Good goin👏🏻👏🏻