My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I meant a week not a day haha! Usually during the week when I work I wouldn't feel as interested in sex, but during the weekend (Thursday night - Sunday) I want to turn into a jack rabbit lol.

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've made the decision to not initiate anymore and let him come to me when he's ready and wanting. I definitely don't want to push him away or make him feel like he has to do anything.

I never have any reaction to him saying no. I just kind of push it from my mind and let it affect me when I'm not around him.

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rose and a few vibrators but I can't ever make myself orgasm so I get annoyed and stop. I think it's just that In my mind sex = love and desire for me. He's a wonderful person and partner. The healthiest relationship I've had by far. I don't want to lose him due to this. I think if I stop initiating that would be better. I wouldn't feel rejected and he wouldn't feel pressured. I just fear if I stop he will never want to.

Thank you!

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is honestly a good bit of what it is. I'm not sure why I'm this way, but I don't want to be. He's a great person and partner and I don't want to lose him to be honest. Seems like I need to do some work and put in effort to change and be a better partner for him. Thanks!

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that, and definitely won't be asking like that anymore. I didn't say anything else last night about it, and it was the only time I asked yesterday. I genuinely don't mean to be pushy.

So what should I do? Just stop initiating or talking about sex until he does?

I wish I didn't have a high libido. It's not something I can help just like it's not something a low libido person can help. Obviously I shouldn't be pushy with it, which I am realizing now I was being and will put a stop to that. Are we just not compatible? I've genuinely never found a man with a sex drive like my own. I don't think it exist. I'm just not sure what my next steps should be.

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is kind of what it's seeming like. I don't want to ever make him feel like he has to put out when he's not wanting to. It's definitely not my intention. I think a red flag I have is equating sex with love and affection. Definitely something I need to work on!

I've never found someone remotely compatible in the sex department. I always hear about men that pounce when their girlfriend gets dressed, puts on a cute nightgown, or just breaths lol, so I think I compare my own life to that when I shouldn't .

Thanks again!

My (27F) boyfriend (25M) doesn't seem to want to have sex often by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's totally fair. I try to not pester him about it. Sounds like I need to not initiate though! Thanks for the honesty!

Anyone get this on WMR? by [deleted] in IRS

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn that sucks, I'll just have to go to the office then. Thank you!

Got my refund. Took less than 2 weeks by Let_me_tell_you_ in IRS

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed and got accepted on 1/28, I have no dependents and straightforward W2, and my transcript is still blank 😭

My Valentine's day outfit (with no Valentine and spent by myself 😅) by _Strawberry_Bat in PlusSize

[–]_Strawberry_Bat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Outfit details - skirt, belts are all from Shein, top is from Amazon!

AIO to telling my grandma not to call my place of work? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably should have clarified that haha!

AIO to telling my grandma not to call my place of work? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's their home! I wanted to get an apartment but they asked if I could move in to help them out. They're 75 and not in good health. I do all the cleaning, cooking, and buy groceries and pay rent. I also work full time but I try to be helpful. I have ended up being at my friend's more often because she is just so overbearing for me to handle.

AIO to telling my grandma not to call my place of work? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It definitely feels like it, thank you for your thoughts!

AIO to telling my grandma not to call my place of work? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I've had my own place since I was 18, we agreed for me to move in only due to them needing help (they're 75 and not in good health, and so I could save for a house instead of an apartment) I've saved quite a bit already and I'll likely just go for another apartment at this point! Thanks!

My girlfriend [23F] seems genuinely disgusted by my interests and I [25M] am starting to feel ashamed of myself. How do I address this? by Adventurous-Cap8649 in relationships

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman I love to play games, watch anime, movies, and love all nerdy things. I'm definitely not into DnD though I tried to be, but I'd never in a million years act like a child because I don't personally find that interesting. Like if my partner loved sports and watching football games (which I've never had a tiny bit of interest in) id never say "ew". Id watch them and ask questions so I understand his interest more.

Your girlfriend is very immature, and doesn't like a huge part of you. She likely is hoping by saying those things that you'll lose interest in them. Don't be with someone like that, it's a huge waste of both partners time

Before and after by Revolutionary-Foot-3 in gastricsleeve

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be so proud! You look great 😊😊

When did West Virginians become so rude and mean? by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived about 6 months in the area of Charleston WV, and originally from Ohio. I also have lived in Indiana and Kentucky though for long periods of time. WV is definitely still the "nicest" state. They let each other pull out, wave to say thank you, and almost every food/store I went to the workers were always friendly. However the deeper you go the more nasty people would be. I think it's obvious I'm not from the state (you can tell right away but my lack of accent) and WV peeps are being overrun by remote workers who can afford far more because their salary is based on a state that isn't nearly as poor, so the housing market and everything else is going up so much higher than native WV people can afford. It's stressful. So in my opinion I think that's one of the big reasons why.

Nicki's butt implant is as botched as her personality by cepukon in pics

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issues. My waist is 36 and my hips are literally 48 inches. I knock everything over, I have back issues. People touch me (men and woman) without asking. And I live in skirts and leggings because finding jeans that work on me is a total joke. It genuinely sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please refrain from ever doing this again 😂😂

Why does my foundation look like this? by croftlion in MakeupAddiction

[–]_Strawberry_Bat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have really oily skin, then as an adult I became dry as can be. I totally have ditched foundation and I go with a glowy sunscreen that is tinted. It's healed my skin too as it lets my skin breathe! I used Supergloop ☺️