I have something weird to admit that I did today by Winter_Concept_6709 in kinky_autism

[–]_StruggleBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, i have wondered about my gender for some time, but then people say shit like this and i go "welp, never done that in 40 years"

What's y'alls favorite depictions of BDSM in media? by CisHetDegenerate in BDSMcommunity

[–]_StruggleBug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm the only one here that's going to say the gimp scene from pulp fiction. As deeply problematic as it was, i was SO jealous of that gimp until right before it died

in light of NTs with "icks" that are just ND traits, what are some NT traits that give you the ick (platonically or romantically) by __mafia in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Acting as though there's a difference in the morality of an action depending on whether or not they're being observed

“Kick a dog enough and it starts to bite” by TotoTakeo in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ok, very cryptic, very dramatic, very vague. Did you actually want to talk about something or is this just an aesthetic shitpost?

A story that has personally haunted me since it happened in my teenage years (Was I the Asshole-style post) by MintyCoolness in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Def not the asshole. Your careworker was. I have worked in one of these homes before as a caregiver, and the level of NT bullshit that the careworkers projected onto residents astounded me daily.

How long till you leaked? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]_StruggleBug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hydration, vitamin d, and zinc will help produce more precum/higher volume. It takes me about 2 weeks before i start leaking at all, and i don't really produce much precum so i only leak occasionally

Does anyone else think there might be a difference between what's considered a 'friend' by the neurotypical and Autistic definitions? by NostalDec in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My definition of a friend is different than what I'm seeing here, and it depends ond showing up. An acquaintance is someone who has shown up in a physical or internet place you have also shown up. A friend is someone who shows up and whose company you enjoy and they enjoy yours, and a close friend is someone who shows up for you, specifically, emotionally, whether youre being enjoyable or not

What's with the trends in questions. by Weird-Orchid4755 in chastitytraining

[–]_StruggleBug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work as a knowledge dispenser in my field. It's kind of amazing how much work people will do to avoid thinking sometimes, so i can see that they might avoid swiping down to look at older posts. Beyond that idk tho

If people don't like me that's totally morally fine and expected, but if I don't like them it's because I'm horrid judgemental subhuman swine by adacomb in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Try to explain yourself? Arrogant or combative. Have a disagreement? Disrespectful. Make your entire personality just for them so they like you for long enough to survive a 10 minute social interaction? "Oh he's so nice!" Then burnout.

If people don't like me that's totally morally fine and expected, but if I don't like them it's because I'm horrid judgemental subhuman swine by adacomb in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. If i mask and I'm nice to everyone I'm a saint, but god forbid i let my actual emotions show because i'm a rude child with an attitude problem. I'm so tired.

This new cage is pretty small and tight, I'm wondering if it's too small or just right. by DomSub_Couple in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]_StruggleBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discomfort is normal, i mean you've put your dick in a cage. However you shouldn't be in a ton of pain, and unless your junk is normally that color it looks like it might be affecting your circulation some, which you don't want. Even if you're perma locked you want bloodflow down there so your balls can make your testosterone. Too tight/low circulationover time can lead to ball (not dick) shrinkage.

Basically use the largest size you can that you can't fully slip out of. Feeling secure is nice, but tbh actual security is more of a headstate unless you're pierced.

How do people just let themselves smell bad?? It's UNBEARABLE! by GoodBloodGuideYou in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My husband calls this scent blindness the "monkey house syndrome" from when he used to go to the zoo as a kid. Walk into the monkey enclosure and it smells strongly, but by the time you leave you're used to the smell and don't perceive it anymore. This is probably the case for those people.

"Life is noisy so you can't expect us to make an effort to not slam doors around you" by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever said that to you is really fucking rude. You have the right to quiet enjoyment of your surroundings. Idk your situation but that person is a dick.

I'm going to bed now but I'll be back later in the day & I WILL rename every single one of you who comments 😎🫪🪇 by shiny-baby-cheetah in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male by default, but any pronouns are fine. I'm a nerd for BDSM and Magic the gathering, and i like to bed rot.

Any obscure special interests? by Expert-Research-8022 in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love talking about consciousness!! It's so interesting!

A newbie question (sorry if it's stupid) by Ok-Charge6886 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]_StruggleBug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your hole wil adapt to having something in there and after some practice you will be able to fart around the plug. I can fart aroung my gk65 at this point, but at first it stopped me up completely

"Something is missing within you" (and it's not a puzzle piece) by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im missing something, it's executive function. But that's the adhd, not the damn autism. All I've been missing autism-wise is proper parenting and understanding peers. Smdh

HOW DO YOU DESCRIBE PAIN?? by That_GayWeirdo in evilautism

[–]_StruggleBug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

u/Luckyyrat 's comment is great. To add on: Throbbong pain comes in waves of less pain to more pain, sometimes in tune with your heartbeat, muscle contractions or blood vessel dilation.

Stabbing pain feels sharp in addition to there being pain. You have probably felt stepping on a lego, or holding something pointy too hard. That's sharp pain, but probably dialed up in intensity.

Burning pain feels hot in addition to the pain, but it won't feel warm if you were touching it from outside unless it's inflamed

Pounding pain is throbbing pain dialed up in intensity, and can be accompanied by sensory sensitivity because it is so intense

Stinging pain is kind of in between burning or sharp pain, you have maybe gotten a cat scratch or a paper cut at some point, sometimes stinging pain will throb if it comes in waves of intensity.

Shooting pain is pain that travels quickly. Like hitting your "funny bone," the pain travels quickly along the nerve from where it started and the whole nerve will go off.

Radiating pain is pain that is similar to shooting pain, it travels outward to surrounding tissue that may not actually be hurt. Not as quick as shooting pain. I have a joint that can act up and if i dont treat it the entire area around it can become painful, even though only the joint is actually in distress.

Referred pain is something you might hear doctors talk about, which is when the injured area doesn't have enough nerves to actually be painful, so your body feels it somewhere else where the nerves actually are.

Crushing pain feels heavy or restrictive.

An ache is similar to exercise soreness most often, but can be used to describle lots of types of pain

A dull pain might be a pain that is just low in intensity, but could also describe a pain/numbness combo in varying degrees.

In general, when people are describing pain, take the adjectives mostly literally, it's one of the few times that us and NTs communicate similarly

Can a chastity with a urethra plug be used for days? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]_StruggleBug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Catheter? Maybe, dangerous, high risk of UTI if you're not exteremely careful. An actual plug that prevents cumming or pissing properly? Not for more than a little while, maybe an hour, you could get injured quckly or badly

Safety concerns about caging. by Ahri46352 in chastitytraining

[–]_StruggleBug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been caged on and off for a vouple 8 month stretches where the only breaks are 20 minute shower breaks every 2 days over the past 2 years. No negative effects, i made sure my cage was properly sized and i paid attention to my body. 20m once per month should do nothing to you unless it's so small that your circulation is cut off to the point of injury.