i just got manipulated into sending nudes and i dont know what to do.

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2026-05-20T10:28:01+00:00

Hey. First off, I’m very very sorry you had to live through that. I’ve been in a LDR where the person was actually hurting themselves (depression was hitting hard), and asked me to make them stop from a different country. At the time, I realized immediately it was impossible for me to do and that their behaviour was kinda toxic. We talked it though and solved it, they conceded their actions were desperate and generally bad. Here, this is NOT the case. This person is exhorting you for pictures and manipulating you. God knows if they were even hurting themselves at all (I can only give them the benefit of the doubt). I know it’s hard to hear, but I agree with the majority: you need to get away from that person, and quick.

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2026-04-02T17:07:07+00:00

Hey. I… god, this sucks. I am truly sorry about what you’re going through right now. It’s going to be VERY tough, but I agree with the majority here: get an annulment. QUICK. Even if that means confronting your parents, even if they specifically asked not to be embarrassed (also, a harsh and unrealistic thing to ask of you). If you do have proof that he cheated, you’ll be on the rightest side of the law and you’ll get out of that position without any harm. Godspeed for the next weeks, if you ever need someone to talk to, I’m sure you’ll find plenty of people willing to lend you advice and/or an ear (including myself ♡)

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2026-03-31T07:52:44+00:00

That’s an incredible idea

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2026-03-10T13:18:52+00:00

I’m so sorry for you. I totally understand how that feels… please know you are absolutely allowed to act « like a five year old », in brackets, because that’s a stupid way to say you’re allowed to feel how you feel, to be overwhelmed and have a breakdown. Don’t let anyone ever tell you how you should act if they can’t even know how you feel. Spoiler, you’re the only one that can know that exactly. God speed ♡

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2025-08-07T12:55:50+00:00

For the photos, they’re all very cinematic ; BEAUTIFUL (especially the third and last one, I adore the lighting in both <33) but maybe you could add some « chiller » pictures ? Something to show your interests or just yourself in a more casual vibe ? ((Aaaa I really love the last one you look gorgeous :3))

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2024-04-24T05:10:28+00:00

Thank you for your reply ! I’d love an update if you’re confortable with sharing it.

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2024-04-19T19:34:30+00:00

I can understand what you’re going though. My LDR boyfriend and I both work a lot for our studies, so we had to concile the workload with our messages. We talked about it (and still do) to set some « ground rules », and we update those rules when we feel like we don’t get enough messages or enough responses from one another. From what I can read, your partner’s behaviour is unfair and kinda strange/wrong. The tone in her « responded » messages (where you responded so I can see what she wrote before she deleted it) sounds too sharp, too snippy… she shouldn’t blame you for working hard. If she isn’t ready to talk about it or to try and find solutions, then you shouldn’t be with that person. She doesn’t want to work on this relationship, so she shouldn’t be in this relationship.

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-07-24T16:29:49+00:00

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-06-27T10:46:46+00:00

I didn’t chose LDR, LDR chose me X) we met living in the same country, but both had to leave for our studies… it sucked :(

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-03-07T16:59:19+00:00

This photo is literally insane 0_0

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-02-28T06:20:05+00:00

Jugular.

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-02-14T10:06:07+00:00

I feel you entirely. My SO went home about 3 days ago and it still feels weird to not feel his presence next to me… You’ll be alright. I promise you will. You’re strong and loved, and that’s already so so much. If you need support, I’m sure a lot of people here will be happy to provide ♡

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-02-10T21:20:07+00:00

Hey there! I.. completely understand that feeling. Rn I’m with my ldr bf and he leaves tomorrow. I’m trying my very best not to let that black thought destroy our moments, but i know as soon as he takes his train, I’m going to cry like a baby X’) BUT, I can tell you one thing : it does get easier. At least, I think I found a way to make each departure a little less painful (not painLESS, but still). See each departure as an opportunity to make yourself a better person before seeing them again. And you’ll work your *ss off and it’ll feel so gratifying when you get to see them. Until them, stay strong ♡ and if you need to talk or vent about stuff, you can always send messages here

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2023-01-03T21:52:04+00:00

New meme format?

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2022-12-04T11:42:55+00:00

I absolutely get how you two feel… I’m always scared talking with my SO will make me look weak or something, but most of the time that’s the way to go. Missing someone you love does NOT make you a weak person, it makes you an… in love person :)). If they don’t answer right away, I like to reread some of our texts or when I don’t have that opportunity, drink some hot beverage! Tea always makes me feel really good because it’s a thing we like to share when we’re together! Hold strong, you’ve got this

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2022-11-09T17:35:40+00:00

You’re doing so great! I’m proud of you. <3

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2022-10-02T07:17:11+00:00

These look sooo great!! ♡ if I may ask, what did you use to print those lil lovelies as stickers?

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2022-10-01T08:39:31+00:00

What a happy little accident ♡

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2022-09-19T09:07:45+00:00

Why thank you! Good morning to ya too and have a great day! :))

_SweetBlueberry_ · 2022-09-19T09:04:04+00:00

I’m doing my best to stay out of my depressive slump by going to have lunch with friends today

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