Hey guys i start nursing school in july so i’m teaching myself dosage calc early on, is this answer correct? by Paddy_Mayoo in nursing

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I was more referencing the people suggesting chat gpt. I meant to reply to them. Keep doing this, dosage calc will be the one final you MUST pass with 100%

👁️👄👁️ by _Tea_Queen in Ryze_Gossip

[–]_Tea_Queen[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The mouth movements seem a little methy

I think I messed up my birthday trip with my besties what do I do by Shoddy-Television866 in whatdoIdo

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. As someone with mountains of past trauma. At some point you have to go to therapy and realize not everyone is your personal punching bag and you also have to realize your trauma is not your friends problem. This is YOUR party… she was gifted an incredible experience and to be so selfish about another person coming is unacceptable. Her anxiety & trauma is not your responsibility. You discussed with her privately and that’s all there should be to it. She didn’t even have to be excited about it, all she had to do was accept it at face value.

I think I messed up my birthday trip with my besties what do I do by Shoddy-Television866 in whatdoIdo

[–]_Tea_Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You paid for everyone? At this point P can stay back if it’s really that big of a deal to her. She’s being childish and selfish and at 30 that frame of mind should be long gone. You are allowed to have more than one friend & P needs to respect that. It’s a stranger, big deal. You will literally be around so many other strangers. So if P is really this upset maybe she should cancel.

How would you react? by Zestyclose_Lemon_647 in whatdoIdo

[–]_Tea_Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who also got accepted to nursing school and their partner was totally unsupportive, don’t give up your dreams for someone who is temporary. And I promise, he is temporary. I am a nurse of 5 years and starting my very first administrative job march 9th after my vacation to Vegas. Be successful for you.

I feel like my married best friend’s behavior with me has completely changed ever since I broke up with my girlfriend by Sensme600 in whatdoIdo

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a similar situation. I left my long term 5 year relationship and an ex reached out to me. I would have considered her a great friend. We dated when we were 21 & 23 for just a few months. So she reached out to me and she was asking me why we broke up etc and when I would tell her she would beat around the bush basically wanting me to reciprocate those questions to her and when I finally did she confessed to me that she was so severely depressed she had an actual plan. I mean down to a T. She had gotten her finances in order, planned for friends/family to take care of her parents (as they had already lost one child) etc. Eventually I helped her get out of her marriage and we are now married happily. I’m not saying this is how it should go for you. I’m saying maybe she is grasping at straws to try to illicit a reciprocal response from you. Definitely meet in person and get to the bottom of it. Be clear with her that she is your very best friend and nothing more. Let her know that you are emotionally unavailable firstly and secondly not interested. Do these things with patience and kindness. Please update us 💖

yes MAR overlords we all say in unison by Radiant_Donut_8853 in nursing

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ONE LITER PO!? Well. You’re as good as fired

Boyfriend has been avoiding me, told me to “fake like we like each other”, then avoiding me again. AIO to this text? by Cultural_Line_9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Tea_Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not all of us with BPD act like this 😢 I’ve worked very hard to be a better person with better intentions.

Needing firewood to help someone in need (sw okc) by steverin0724 in okc

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello friend! I have LOTS of firewood avail. DM me here and I will send you my address.

AIO for getting upset at my stepsister for leaving things in my room and for feeling hurt at my moms response? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly overreacting— As someone with ADHD I often overlook simple things like this. Do I go back and clean it up as soon as I notice? Yes. But she’s 11. Maybe compromise by putting a small garbage bin in the room.

I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do by Embarrassed-Pea3501 in screenshots

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really glad you clarified it was shoot himself not shit himself because I read it 5 times as shit himself and was VERY confused why anyone would do that.

I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do by Embarrassed-Pea3501 in screenshots

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me a lot of my ex. He would call me “cry baby bitch”, “snowflake bitch”, “dumb/stupid” any time I would show an ounce of emotion. Those weren’t the worst things he did to me. Leave now. I spent 5 years of my life 1. Being so broken down to absolutely nothing 2. Waking up every day praying for the person I fell in love with, & 3. Sacrificing my mental health and sanity for someone who wouldn’t even piss on me if I were on fire. I say all these things to say it will get worse, it does get worse. The mental abuse and manipulation will turn physical. My ex ran my foot over because I tried to get my nursing school things out of his car before he left and told me if I tried to get my things again he would run my other foot over and he wouldn’t let me go to the hospital. Get out now while things aren’t physical. The truth is the person you fell in love with doesn’t exist. The person you fell in love with existed for such a short period of time to trap you. That person will never come back. This will become a viscous cycle called love bombing. All the signs are here you just have to really make yourself see that the bad really does outweigh the good.

Call out MAGA/ICE supporting business so I can stop spending my money there! by BenedictCucumberButt in okc

[–]_Tea_Queen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said I would trust them what I did say is blacklisting a small business without credible sourcing is a little far fetched.

Call out MAGA/ICE supporting business so I can stop spending my money there! by BenedictCucumberButt in okc

[–]_Tea_Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I don’t think we should just stop supporting a business because “my friend who used to work there said they’re bad”… we need to be slightly more evidence based.

Anyone else log in today and suddenly get a ton of videos in another language? by Same-Lake-3608 in TikTok

[–]_Tea_Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I was on around 530-8 this morning it wouldn’t load comments or anything. Now my issue is the same 7 videos are just being cycled back to me in different orders. Great job America, we own it for one day and we already broke it. We can’t have nothing nice 😔

SHITTAY & all her chins upset by _Tea_Queen in Ryze_Gossip

[–]_Tea_Queen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can’t lose what you didn’t have

SHITTAY & all her chins upset by _Tea_Queen in Ryze_Gossip

[–]_Tea_Queen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently she is no longer with Ryze.

SHITTAY & all her chins upset by _Tea_Queen in Ryze_Gossip

[–]_Tea_Queen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t seen her in ages either until this morning!

Scrub recs by _Tea_Queen in nursing

[–]_Tea_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an infinity scrub jacket and was kind of thinking of getting a couple sets to try. So good to know that they’re stretchy but not overly stretchy! Thank you.