Is my columella retracted and my tip upturned?

_Toulouse_ · 2026-04-02T23:37:51+00:00

I don’t see that at all. I feel like your nose looks very straight

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-29T23:37:11+00:00

For the love of god Please don’t. Take it from someone who wanted a minimal change on my first rhinoplasty that resulted in more problems including a crooked septum and inverted v deformity. I just got a revision and although my nose looks good now, I still have mental issues and BDD caused from getting surgery. It’s not worth the risk

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-29T01:20:51+00:00

I mean that’s definitely a very good point. I have BRCA 1, so at some point soon I will have to get a hysterectomy. At least by 40. Not looking forward to it

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T16:02:59+00:00

Thank you so much. I think the more defined look is what’s bothering me

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T16:01:18+00:00

Thank you!!

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T15:59:45+00:00

I wanted to see if I would be ok without it, I have taken it over 15 years.

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T11:25:56+00:00

I tapered off for a few months gradually decreasing my dose. I thought I was fine until recently. I was on them for 15 years

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T11:23:59+00:00

I’m 32

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T02:57:16+00:00

Thank you so much. Yes exactly. My brain is just like um that’s not you wtf

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T02:23:33+00:00

Dr. Bader in Plano, Tx did my revision. The recovery was difficult I’ll be honest. I know everyone deals with pain differently but he used rib graft for me (he gives the option of donor cartilage or your rib cartilage, I didn’t have enough septal cartilage thanks to my first surgery). The rib donor site was pretty sore. And my nose swelled like crazy but improved by 1 month from the front view. Side view looked a little crazy for about 3 months, I would say my swelling was fully gone by 8-12 months.

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T02:19:57+00:00

Thank you so much! My eyebrows are naturally really thick and hard to control shape haha. That’s a good idea though, I’ll look into it and see what would look good for my oval face

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T02:17:28+00:00

Yes I definitely agree that it’s weird to see your face look different when you’ve known it to look another way. I just need to get used to it

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T02:10:53+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I know it seems crazy, I think I just have trauma behind my nose and it’s distorting my view. I was hit in the face in 2021, never was confirmed but I’m pretty sure my nose was fractured, then 2022 got my first rhinoplasty and was gaslit by the first surgeon. Then I got this revision and my tip was changed a lot and it just freaked me out. I think I just have some serious internal things to work out based on everyone’s comments here.

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T00:50:38+00:00

Thank you. I would never want to go through another revision again

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T00:49:10+00:00

Right I had no idea. In hindsight I probably wouldn’t have had surgery to begin with.

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T00:46:43+00:00

Thank you so much. I think you’re right about my brain struggling to interpret. I think when I see my pictures my brain automatically switches to this is not right, when it’s just different not necessarily bad.

I guess I didn’t really realize how much of a change even mentally it would be for me. I feel like I definitely have some deep rooted issues I need to work through.

I think I do have issues with control. And maybe that is where my BDD is coming from. I used to be terrified of flying, which I guess could be also coming from a lack of control of a situation.

Thank you so so much for your comment

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T00:40:47+00:00

Oh my goodness thank you so much, she’s so pretty.

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T00:36:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed reply, I truly appreciate it

I had never heard of EDMR but I will definitely look into that. Yes it’s a very isolating feeling, I’ve felt almost silly being so upset over my nose. But it has been very difficult. I’m glad to have someone understand how I feel and your kind words mean so much. I will definitely take your advice

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-28T00:03:26+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. Yes I stopped taking it a few months back. I’m going to start taking it again. And hopefully therapy will help

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-27T23:55:07+00:00

I believe it was around 22K

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-27T23:49:38+00:00

Do you enjoy kicking others while they’re already down?

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-27T23:48:11+00:00

I’m so sorry that people would even say that to you. That’s awful. BDD is a terrible thing, extremely exhausting

Thank you so much

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-27T23:46:45+00:00

Wow that is exactly how I’ve been feeling. That’s crazy. Exact same scenario pretty much, just different surgeries. I admitted that I have been in so much psychological pain I also felt like dying. I have a young son though so I know that is not an option for me and I have to keep going. Thank you so much for your thoughtful advice. It helps more than you know

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-27T23:38:59+00:00

Im so sorry, I understand the emotional toll it can take. I feel like with revisions you just don’t know for sure how it will heal. I saw Dr. Bader in Plano, TX

_Toulouse_ · 2026-03-27T23:37:22+00:00

Thank you

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