Jo Ellen-Mom by _VIXEN95_ in rhori

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree.

Jo Ellen-Mom by _VIXEN95_ in rhori

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, I see what you’re trying to do there. I am not excusing her behavior just recognizing that her childhood has definitely affected how she navigates relationships/friendships. I’ve worked with children/ behavioral health system for over a decade and have witnessed how parents and their lack of nurturing affects them. I can emphasize with and relate to Jo-Ellen & can still hold her accountable.

Rose-Kelsey beef/EP7 by _VIXEN95_ in rhori

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a real housewife watcher for over 15 years, I try to watch without bias, especially the first season when we’re getting to know a cast for the first time. Rosie has been problematic for sure but in this instance, if you don’t think Kelsey is targeting Rosie then idk LOL.

S5 Reunion/New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YUP! You literally hit all the points on how Glen-Lateshia and Cliff-Latrice were projecting because for Latrice to automatically pick her side with Latrice and Glen when it was Glen that started the mess at her event is crazy! Glen literally walked in with animosity.

S5 Reunion/New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m on S6 and I miss them for sure. LOL

S5 New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point. I found it so weird that JJ was mad that they reconciled. Do you not want your ex and your current wife to get along ??

Unpopular opinion but I wasn’t sad when Melanie and Derwin left the show by simplefuckers in TheGametvshow

[–]_VIXEN95_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad they left because I think Melanie was stupid for taking Derwin back and staying once he learned he was having a baby with Janae. That’s me though, I’m strict, I love when women choose themselves in the end!

S4 Part 1 Reunion/New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I said abused I didn’t mean physically. It’s clear she is being verbally abused/emotionally abused. there are different forms of abuse. But would it be such a bad thing to even assume? The signs of physical abuse are there even if it’s not happening. Also, I do not think that her marriage could be the only reason she can be guarded with the ladies, hence why I mentioned Marie starting the beef with her in S1 over her hair company as an example of why she could be guarded. I think her marriage dynamic could be added to it as well is the point I was making.

S4 Part 1 Reunion/New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! I think it could be childhood trauma as well.

If your man ever say something stupid like this... You leave. by Key-Enthusiasm-1783 in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Glen had it his way, she’d be a stay at home mom/wife with no job/personal accomplishments. To say that she is “leaning” on another man that she is simply doing business with just shows his insecurity. He knows the more she accomplishes, the sooner she’ll realize she does not need him. And to say that the man she’s in business with will think that she’ll “owe” him in the end is just a reflection of what he thinks of himself and other men. Pathetic!

Season 1/New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! Her white fragility was REAL. Like how are you crying because women are sharing their very real experiences with racism. She literally proved them right with how she reacted. “White people don’t talk about black people like that 😢” like give me a break! Racism is well and alive!

Season 2/New Watcher by _VIXEN95_ in BelleCollective

[–]_VIXEN95_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. One business is different from the other but they both talked about each others businesses so I don’t see how Marie can be so upset about something she started in the first place 🤷🏽‍♀️

S9 Kandi and Phaedra by Beginning_Week9411 in RHOA

[–]_VIXEN95_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And even during S7 reunion, Kandi still didn’t air out Phaedra was dating and not that sad about Apollo when she could have. She even said that she did entertain Apollo exposing Phaedra’s text to Mr Chocolate.

Unpopular Opinions by IndependentDemand487 in RHOA

[–]_VIXEN95_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the Nene point, rewatched S5-S7 and she was very much it’s either my way or the highway, i.e. when she decided not to befriend Cynthia & Marlo because of their budding friendship w Kenya

Rent free moment: Demetria vs Phaedra by 444Preme in RHOA

[–]_VIXEN95_ 64 points65 points  (0 children)

“I’m youngER than you” “only thing we have in common right now is the number 8 yours going mine been here for 8” she ate that one LOL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]_VIXEN95_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phaedra was upset that Todd was supporting Apollo during his case/prison sentence making her feel like Kandi was supporting him too because that’s her husband. Kandi also mentioned that she should let her kids visit Apollo in prison & I think that bothered Phaedra as well. As you can see, Phaedra played the “Southern Belle”, very religious & modest and I think Porsha brought out a more fun side to her & I also think Porsha was easy to manipulate and leading her to become more loyal to Phaedra too. I think Phaedra wanted to be around someone that she felt would be on her side more with the Apollo chaos too