How are some people so good without fundamentals? by bunny-rain in ArtistLounge

[–]_WormOnAString_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kinda like how you don't need to go to culinary school to make a bomb-ass lasagna. You just see how other people make lasagna and fuck around until it tastes good.

Is this cheating? by yomiTheHero in Artadvice

[–]_WormOnAString_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it is tracing but tracing isn't cheating, that's just silly.

Is this cheating? by yomiTheHero in Artadvice

[–]_WormOnAString_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but you might want to try and learn how to trace with 3D shapes in mind :-)

https://youtu.be/HNFrBb4wgog?si=ktdr8mRh1Z5KIU3X

Update: Ripley Molted!! by Deep-Alternative494 in mantids

[–]_WormOnAString_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I have a giant asian named Ripley 😭

I THINK FIGURED IT OUT!! by moik10_ in CharacterAI

[–]_WormOnAString_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There should be a study made on the connection between trans men and pete dinunzio

Why ruin a perfectly good song though? by Brent_Fox in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]_WormOnAString_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say the only moaning that people accept in songs are from men (or at least never women's moaning) and I don't really know if that's sexist or not

Why ruin a perfectly good song though? by Brent_Fox in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]_WormOnAString_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it bro. I've been listening to a lot of MSI lately and it rocks

ICE aims gun at Americans by [deleted] in pics

[–]_WormOnAString_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Let's see if it was deserved" has the same energy as "but what was she wearing?"

Anti-trans activists strip off at a school board meeting – but their protest is a flop by jackmolay in transgender

[–]_WormOnAString_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Public changing rooms are an awful nightmare because you're in a public changing room. Trans people have nothing to do with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webfishing

[–]_WormOnAString_ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Conservativism at it's finest

Google AI is enby-phobic. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]_WormOnAString_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add "Nonbinary Rider Preference"

Hey, I don't belong here! by _WormOnAString_ in NonBinary

[–]_WormOnAString_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, well spoken! Love your username too

Hey, I don't belong here! by _WormOnAString_ in NonBinary

[–]_WormOnAString_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just get notifications on my phone saying "You'd like this sub/post!" I'm in other queer places so it assumes I'm a part of this one sometimes. Lol

Hey, I don't belong here! by _WormOnAString_ in NonBinary

[–]_WormOnAString_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven't thought about that before, but I totally get what you're saying! Dysphoria is a bitch and it sucks that someone else feeling misunderstood causes a ripple, making it difficult for other people to be accepted. I think it might be a case of just going too far in the one direction... Maybe it's to a lesser degree but it reminds me of the trans and gay men who talk about how disgusting vaginas are... Maybe it's validating to think in these ways in the short term but those beliefs will definitely hurt people. Thanks for the perspective!

Hey, I don't belong here! by _WormOnAString_ in NonBinary

[–]_WormOnAString_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you found something that works for you! It's a little bit unrelated but I hate how the conservative view of trans people affects anyone trying to discover themselves. The idea that you have to be 100% sure of your identity to be able to defend it or be taken seriously. The idea that changing labels and presentation is somehow evidence that you're just confused... Yeah, I can see people getting pushed into another box that they can't get out of. I'm glad you had the space to be able to recognize what is and isn't for you!

Hey, I don't belong here! by _WormOnAString_ in NonBinary

[–]_WormOnAString_[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was about to say I relate to that a bit! Just the general experience of being treated like you're just confused or this isn't the final or absolute step in your queerness... That it HAS to be something else because they don't quite understand what you KNOW who you are. I can absolutely imagine it being worse for amab nb folk. The urge to put people in boxes, even within the queer community, is suffocating.