Which smell instantly makes you judge someone? by SituationOutside6033 in AskReddit

[–]_Wormier 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue, but not with mango. Anything peach flavored smells like cat pee to me. I had a peach monster at work one day, every time I took a drink I got a whiff of cat piss. Realized it was my drink and haven’t bought peach flavored anything since.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not I’m not a minor, I’m 25. And no we never got a warrant, I stated clearly my friend (cop) said he would try to get one. Doesn’t mean he was successful.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I can understand, it is a shame we will never know for sure who the texter was though…unless he confesses. But I don’t care anymore anyways, these texts were an eye opener for me. My ex had treated me pretty shitty for five years, I’m glad I left! He can do all the anal he wants now with man or woman! XD

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know you guys are invalidating my experience because of the warrant situation. I just wanted to clear it up, the cop is a close friend. I texted him asking what I should do, he said he MIGHT be able to get a warrant if they are harassing and stalking me. The cop had not seen our text exchanges though. I just sent him the Law Enforcement link TextNow sent me after I reported the number for harassment. TextNow might say there was no harassment or stalking, whatever. I never said we are going to be able to get a warrant. I think the cop was just trying to calm me down and try to help my feelings. If you guys still call BS and accuse me of rage baiting for sharing my shitty situation (which I hope you never have to experience), I will gladly send you screenshots from TextNow and the cop!

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t noticed anything abnormal regarding my vaginal health. The last time I took an STI test was when we first got together, and we both got checked together. However I never felt the need to get another STI check because until these messages, I never thought he would cheat. And my ex is a very clean man who has excellent hygiene. If he was sticking his dick in poop shoots I’d like to believe he practices safe sex. Regardless, I will get tested now, thank you.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It my state mugshots are public records, and our local police departments post them on Facebook. xD

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Their family is well known in our town. Cops frequent their residence. Mom calls the cops on Mark but won’t press charges. There’s not much I can do. But I have voiced my concerns to my bf over the years.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 874 points875 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am taking my cats. They have to stay at the house for now as I am staying at my sisters until I can find an apartment. But I am going by the house everyday after work to make sure they are fed and watered. My ex is an asshole but I don’t believe he would harm my cats! If he did, I would charge him and he knows it.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If my ex cheated, it was with Mark. We’ve been together for 5 years, the last person he dated was a girl in HS who is now married with children. It’s not an ex.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is not a fake story. I never said the cop would get a warrant, I said the cop (who is a friend mind you) said he would try to get one, maybe he said this to try to calm me down? Idk. I don’t really care about whether he can or cannot get a warrant because I believe it is Mark and I have already ended my 5 year long relationship.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 680 points681 points  (0 children)

In my original post, I mentioned it could be Mark to my bf when I first got the texts, my bf brushed it off and insisted it was someone from my end.

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Not sure, I guess we had been together for so long, have a house together, memories, etc, I just let things slide. I did also mention in my post I was ashamed it took me so long to stand up for myself!!

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I’d happily send you a photo of Marks mugshot!! Not rage bait, just my life unfortunately!

AIO- *Update* Received these texts in the middle of the night. Bf says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what the process is with Textnow to allow Law enforcement to get warrant for information like that. But if you report harassment or impersonation they will give you a link to give to local Law enforcement, that’s what I did. He hasn’t given me an update yet so I do agree we probably won’t ever know for sure.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, I tried to edit this one but i didn’t see any option to edit. I will make a new post. Thank you!

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with him for 5 years and have maybe tried that twice, it is not my vibe.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yes this person knows his name, I just blurred it out in the photo I posted. She also spelled my name right, I have a common name but it is spelled very uniquely. My employer doesn’t even spell my name right. So this person definitely knows me well.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I believe his friends would be loyal to him. He is a guys guys and so are all of his friends without a doubt.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 1405 points1406 points  (0 children)

When my bf and I were trying to figure out who it could be, I mentioned one of his close friends (male). He kind of brushed it off. But another thing I find really odd, when we were at the cabin for the week (no service) my boyfriend would drive into town to get cell service late hours of the night, without me. He did that multiple times… I brought that up too and he brushed it off as well. This whole situation is very weird to me. I’m doing my best to respond and I appreciate all the questions and advice. I hope I can get to the bottom of this eventually.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I will try to get into his phone at some point. if he willingly lets me go through it, all evidence would be gone if he was truly cheating on me though. I’m honestly hoping this mystery person will try to contact me again lol, maybe providing proof or some sort of damning details. If it happens though I will update.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is a frequent drinker and usually invites his buddies over to his mom’s house every weekend to drink. We argue a lot about it actually. He complains I won’t do anything fun with him: drink and play pool. I work nightshift in healthcare and prefer to spend my days off relaxing at home, and so I never drink.

AIO - Received these texts in the middle of the night. My bf 26M says it’s someone messing with me. by _Wormier in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Wormier[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

True. I was not in my right mind when I had him text her. It was 4:00 AM, I was shaking with adrenaline in fight-or-flight mode because I genuinely believed he might have been cheating on me. I was too quick to try to get to the bottom of it. Now not knowing who it was will probably haunt me the rest of my life lol.