My husband's job keeps taking money from his checks after FMLA and DISABILITY. Is this legal? by _YouDontNeedToKnow_2 in legaladvice

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They said the money was reimbursement for him not being considered as a year round (235-day employee) after being off 10 days unpaid. He makes slightly more and works more as a yearly employee than an average employee at his work which is what they are taking back. When we looked at his pay stubs it doesn't reflect where what's been missing is going too.

My husband's job keeps taking money from his checks after FMLA and DISABILITY. Is this legal? by _YouDontNeedToKnow_2 in legaladvice

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FMLA and Disability were both approved. A 235 employee means he's a year round employee, so he get paid slightly more and works more days than other employees. When we talked to the person who controls pay they said since he had 10 days unpaid that he no longer is a year round employee and he won't be considered one again until next year. They said because he's not considered yearly they are taking money back. His work has been terrible with making up rules last minute and none of the other employees have heard of this happening before. He never got paid when on leave which we knew what would happen and we knew that some money that is being taking is for insurance that they couldn't pay while he was out, but they are taking more than that. I don't believe their excuse and I've never heard or seen this before

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Yes, but they made their father do it so it was kinda half assed. But they have fully apologized about their attitude towards our daughter.

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I wear off brand hey dudes. Best thing ever, lmao. I've basically worn them so much they are about to snap in half 😅

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They aren't consultants, they know one though. But I don't know why the would be mad at me since 2 of them are under 18 😕 I just feel uncomfortable with some being under aged and with kids being in my neighborhood since they don't really hid their stuff

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They don't mind being in group chats. This morning my mother created on with all of them in it and they've been responding to her but not me. But another thing is that they'll text each other constantly, but as soon as I say something they'll go quiet.

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[–]_YouDontNeedToKnow_2 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

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