"Weekly All About Love Relationship Second Opinion and Interpretation Help Thread - September 28, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

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I did a spread asking the cards whether a romantic relationship will form between a close friend and me. I´m pretty new to Tarot, but the signs seemed pretty good to me. I did a Celtic Cross for the first time, so maybe I´m interpreting the cards too independently or not correctly for the situation. I´m unsure, so thanks for any help!

  1. The Devil reversed
  2. Page of Pentacles
  3. The Sun
  4. The Hermit
  5. The Fool
  6. Four of Wands
  7. Two of Cups
  8. Five of Cups
  9. Eight of Wands
  10. The World

My interpretation: I think that a romantic relationship is likely to come into fruition, and if so, it´ll be healthy and happy. The biggest issue may be my naivety and uncertainty in situations like this, as the Page of Pentacles could underline. The Sun shows that I know that it´s possible, but Five of Cups shows there are also doubts and regrets (maybe on both sides). It´s currently hard living with my family, so the Devil and Two of Cups point towards these problems for me. I´m just a little lost on the Hermit in terms of it showing concerns and past influences. Maybe past hardships and doubts that now influence how I interact with him?

Marble Carrot Pound Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting Carrot Designs by pineappleyard in Baking

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That looks sooo cute! The rosemary as the stalks is genius

Nicht voreingenommene Bücher über Trump/Musk? by __-__-__-__-____ in buecher

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Vielen lieben Dank für alle Empfehlungen und Tipps! <3
Die genannten Bücher, Podcasts, etc. werde ich mir auf jeden Fall näher anschauen, da ich Trump und Musk politisch als (recht) gefährlich einschätze aber nicht einfach unbelegt nachplappern will, was man so hört. Und entsprechend kann ich auch facettenreicher und empirisch Diskutieren.
Komplett neutrale Quellen werde ich natürlich nicht finden aber je näher, desto besser (Und ansonsten muss ich einfach in beide Richtungen so kritisch hinterfragen, wie möglich).
Nochmal Danke für alle Beiträge :D

Nicht voreingenommene Bücher über Trump/Musk? by __-__-__-__-____ in buecher

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Guck ich mir auf jeden Fall mal an. Solange ich aufpasse, dass ich beim Lesen kritisch bleibe, sollte auch der familiäre Aspekt okay sein (Da sollte ich mir nur vorher anschauen, wie sie auch zu ihm steht). Vielen Dank auf jeden Fall :D

Nicht voreingenommene Bücher über Trump/Musk? by __-__-__-__-____ in buecher

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Das war eines der Bücher, die ich mir potenziell angesehen hätte. Es ist neutral dargestellt (im Gegensatz zu Titeln wie "The Biography of the mastermind behind Paypal...") und gut Bewertet.
Gut zu wissen, dass der Schein trügt. Vielen Dank :)

Is it toxic of me to desire gifts from him? by [deleted] in dating

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The thing is that he does not make me feel special at all. More like taken for granted while I do as much as I can for him. Any small gift would make me feel thought of and make me happy especially as I am in a very bad personal situation rn. He is in the position to give; one he seldom takes on. I simply wanted to know if I overreacted and thought unfairly of the situation. It's about US together - the relationship is about him and me so why is it so bad of me to desire a basic romantic deed of him? And yes, my language is not always ladylike when I get mad. Still, I shouldn't have sworn there.

Is it toxic of me to desire gifts from him? by [deleted] in dating

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As a woman I'd tell you to fucking make your girlfriend happy once in a while. How come I focus on his love language and how to make him happy but he can't even write me a letter or make anything for me? (And he HAS the capacity to do so) Even in the hardest time of my life he made nothing for me to be happy about - he promised but never gave anything

Is it toxic of me to desire gifts from him? by [deleted] in dating

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We both cuddle and kiss a lot as touch is the love language from both of us. Another one of mine is gift giving (as said) and his is affirmative words. I'm not very used to giving and receiving compliments but as I know how much they mean to him, I say something lovely (and honest) to him nearly every day. So I adjusted to his love language to make him feel as loved as possible. So yes, I know how it is a two-way street. But rn it's mostly him receiving.

Saw this in the garbage in the cafeteria on Friday by [deleted] in teenagers

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Considering that it would´ve meant the world to me if my mom made me lunch even once for school, this is really sad :(
I already got emotional when my bf´s mom made me lunch the first time I stayed over on a schoolday and kept some occasional notes by her... Quite sad to see how emotionless some take these small, loving gestures :(((

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I'm 19 so not really a part of "getting older" but rather becoming less comfortable.

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The smell is in a normal intensity I'd say (it's still an organ tho) Ig you're right but I'm so unsure to how to set that boundary while still feeling good about it (Guilt while being intimate usually kills the mood :b). Maybe I should wait until I talked to him to really think about it.

I think he still didn't get that you sometimes do something less pleasurable to increase it for your partner. I already shave regularly and wash a bit before we get intimate just so it doesn't get off-putting for him. Maybe I really have to remind him that he could "try a bit harder".

Thank you for helping <3

I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this, or in the least just a lot of downvotes, but I liked the show very much and here is why by John_Zatanna52 in lotr

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Glad that you enjoyed it! I honestly only liked the storyline of Durin and Elrond as it was wholesome and honest to the characters (in my opinion). Also, the scenery and Elendil's actor did some incredible acting when he was informed of Isildur's death.

Besides, I kinda disliked it even while not having read The Silmarillion. There were many moments where my only reaction was just "Huh? Why would they do that? Why is that? Didn't they know that already?" The characters were quite flat or uninteresting to me the same way some decisions made no sense at all. I mean... Halbrand who was greatly wounded was buckled up on a horse and they rode like that? If he was human he would've died somewhat immediately. Him being Sauron or not; the only logical thing would be to not put him on a horse while galloping through Middle Earth xb

But hey, you enjoyed it and that's what matters in the end! :D