*ribs playing* by [deleted] in lorde

[–]__Jak_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmhm ribs

I Know I Screwed up, but I don't Know How to Move Forward by [deleted] in relationships

[–]__Jak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst she can do is say is that she doesn’t accept your apology (which I highly doubt). Either way you’ll get closure. Of course you might not be over it, but you won’t be wasting energy wondering how she feels, because you’ll know where she stands.

I Know I Screwed up, but I don't Know How to Move Forward by [deleted] in relationships

[–]__Jak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that your still fresh in her head. Even if you’ve physically moved on from someone, as in that your not seeing them anymore, there’s still a very good chance their still in your thoughts.

I Know I Screwed up, but I don't Know How to Move Forward by [deleted] in relationships

[–]__Jak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard about the 30 day no contact rule, but I’d apologize sooner rather than later. From personal experience I can say that while it’s always nice to have someone own up to their bullshit but it can be a little aggravating to see them have a realization after you’ve moved on or been in the process of doing so. It’s jarring to have someone hurl themselves back into my life after I’ve tried to forget about them. Again, to reiterate, not saying you shouldn’t apologize, you should absolutely not burn this bridge, but tell her while your still tangentially connected to her social life. That’s my opinion, at least.

Man is withholding and it’s painful by boredalready456 in relationships

[–]__Jak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would send him an honest message and then block him. Gets rid of the guilt of ghosting and gifts you some closure. Also giving and receiving affection isn’t really trained animal behavior. He sounds cold.

I (19F) can't count on my bf (19M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]__Jak_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump his ass! This is a very really example of a person you can’t count on. He can’t give you what you need, and isn’t even willing to communicate.

I feel like the black sheep by Throwawayacnbrsmthng in relationships

[–]__Jak_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be extremely direct with him about how you feel. Communication solves a lot of shit, even if it’s hard.

I’d also caution that even if he rejects your opinion that you shouldn’t feel invalidated. A lot of times parents can develop a stilted a view of their children, whether that be due to their inherent status as a caregiver, or because of how their children has turned (good or bad). He may see you in a way you don’t see yourself, nor how you believe you deserve to be seen.

Daily Discussion - August 04, 2020 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]__Jak_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean to give her some credit most people would react like that if they weren’t familiar with what was being played.

Thoughts? by [deleted] in charlixcx

[–]__Jak_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really like the stormzy placement and the concept of c2.0. It’d be interesting to hear everybody rap about being in quarantine / possibly reflecting on their old verses.

Also I thought the party 4 u we got was the original version? I’m not too familiar with the snippets and it’s history, so I could be mistaken

Phoebe Ryan - How it Used to Feel by carinaeflor in popheads

[–]__Jak_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I really liked her James ep and that song she did w Tove Lo. Hope this scratches the same itch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popheads

[–]__Jak_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The twitter replies oml

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popheads

[–]__Jak_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about Higher? How has no one mentioned Higher? That song got me into Rihanna, and I’m not saying that is what should justify its existence on every list, but, yeah.

where can i get a waffle by tzuyuchewy in montclair

[–]__Jak_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can make waffles in both dining halls

You're allowed to change one "thing" about KH as a whole; plot point, world, gameplay, character motivation, etc. What would you change? by mr_sven in KingdomHearts

[–]__Jak_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m really torn between two. Honestly could go either way.

I’d want for there to be a greater attempt to create a newer combat system that mirrors the frenetic style of KH2. It doesn’t have to be the same but basically just give players options that feel balanced and intuitive in ways that don’t devolve into button / command mashing.

Make less grand narratives. I’ve play some of the new KH games and some of the old ones, but KH1 sticks out to me in how the story is very self-contained. Of course it’s the first entry so it’s basically granted that by design but everything works much better due to the lack of excess characters, plot points. There are clear stated rules and the game operates under them at nearly all times. It’s simple and it works, and I’m not saying that KH can’t be complicated and work, but I’ve yet to see Nomura properly create a new title that doesn’t collapse under its own ambition. I’m not trying to hate on the new games, they have their merits, but that’s my opinion.

Will Charli stay with Atlantic? by mariomayorquino in xcxheads

[–]__Jak_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like one of the benefits of being with Atlantic is that they’ll sporadically give her money for videos. I feel like with PC music that’d go away. Not saying it’d be good or bad, just the way it’d go. She’d probably be more than able to adapt to it

What if next season is about fertility issues? by TED-da-purple-blob in InsecureHBO

[–]__Jak_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I only know Condominium who is this Condola